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fayephillips

50 Minneapolis, MN Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love life, music, films, literature, humor, hanging out and enjoying these with friends. Basically an ambivert, learning toward extrovert - I am very social, enjoy attending live music, arts and film events, but also enjoy recharging at home, working in the garden, cooking and watching films. I enjoy going to movies, eating good food - trying new places, frequenting favorites - engaging in good, long, deep conversations, and being in nature and by water. Not much gets me down except shallow, insincere, judgmental or myopic-sighted people, and people who don't care at least a little about global issues such as environmental impact and sustainability.
What I’m doing with my life
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Radio show DJ (eclectic mix of most genres, but mainly punk, post-punk, garage, psych, indie-rock, classic rock, experimental, old-time country), a radio documentary producer on arts, history and culture, and oral history book author. A freelance journalist on arts. Spare time . . . cooking, reading, listening to music, working on health, gardening, herbalism. Hoping to get back into playing fiddle soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh, feel comfortable and open up, sharing stories and delighting in arts experiences. Communicating, reading/intuiting people, and with predicting arts/music trends. I'm a good cook, great pickler. Great with cats and pretty good with plants. : )
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say I'm vivacious with joyful spirit that lights up the room. My green eyes, my voice, my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a lifelong literature, movie, music etc. junkie. I am a voracious reader of modern and classic literature, autobiographies, music history, science fiction, fantasy, magic realism, thrillers, indie stuff. A few authors I love: Marlon James (currently "A Brief History of Seven Killings is blowing my mind). Neil Gaiman, Dave Eggers, Michael Chabon, Donna Tartt, G. R. R. Martin, Michael Pollan, Leslie Marmon Silko, Margaret Atwood, N. Scott Momaday, and Louise Ehrdrich are a few recent faves. Longer ago faves include: Tom Robbins, P. K. Dick, William Gibson, Neal Stephenson, Robert Heinlein, Ursula K. LeGuin, Toni Morrison . . . I'm currently also enjoying "The Book Thief." I recently finished/loved The Goldfinch, Just Kids, Please Kill Me. Gone Girl, Game of Thrones Book 1, Hologram for the King by Eggers, LOVESTAR (a dystopian Icelandic novel I LOVED), and LIFE by Keith Richards.

TV: The Fall, Sherlock, Outlander, Black Mirror, Peaky Blinders, True Detective, Doctor Who, Downton Abbey, Luther, Misfits, Orphan Black (Love BBC). Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Continuum, Shameless, Hell on Wheels, Happy Valley, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Madmen, Brooklyn 99. Past faves: The Wire, Deadwood, LOST (except for the ending), Battlestar Galactica, Prime Suspect, Star Trek (all).

Shows: live music, most genres, at several venues. A few fave local bands of many - Rabbit Holes, Fury Things, VATS, Waveless, The Blind Shake, Michael Yonkers, Birthday Suits, Alpha Consumer, Bob Mould, Web of Sunsets, Eleganza, Out of Controllers, The Mighty Mofos, Fort Wilson Riot, Black Diet, Babes in Toyland, Sam Cassidy, Flasher, Iguano, Idle Hands, Flavor Crystals, Dead Gurus, Magic Castles, Seawhores, United Teachers of Music, TFATT, First Communion Afterparty, Driftwood Pyre, The Knotwells, Dreamland Faces, Charlie Parr, Frankie Lee, the Cactus Blossoms, Buildings, Red Daughters, Night Moves, Chambermaids, Mr. Hide, Kinda Kinky, Frankie Teardrop and so, so many more.

To get into but a few fave national/international faves: Ty Segall, Thee Oh Sees, (most of the San Fran psych scene), The Black Lips, Diamond Rugs, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Roky Erickson, 13th Floor Elevators, Moon Duo, The Night Beats, Warlocks, the BJM, Dead Skeletons, Benjamin Booker, The War on Drugs, D'Angelo, Black Angels, The Ghost of a Sabertooth Tiger, Wooden Shjips, David Bowie, Cheap Trick, Rolling Stones, Neil Young, Mudhoney, The Cramps, Savages, Iggy Pop, Motley Crue, Violent Femmes, the Meat Puppets, Lee Ranaldo and the Dust . . . a few fave bands from the past include: The Fall, The Cows, Run Westy Run, The Litter, Joy Division, The Cure, Queen (all-time fave), The Who, The Kinks, Television, Wire, Suicide, Silver Apples, Sonic Youth, Pink Floyd, The Ramones, Dead Kennedys, Husker Du, Gang of Four, The Buzzcocks, . . .

Fave food - I enjoy most kinds, and love to go out to try new restaurants or hang out at fave spots: Japanese - sushi and ramen - especially Matthew's at Fuji Ya Weds., Thai, Vietnamese, Mediterranean, Greek, Spanish, Cuban, comfort food, e.g. steak, seafood, roast chicken, pot roast. I also love supper clubs and Irish pubs, especially The Anchor fish and chips. Fave restaurants currently also are: Le Town Talk Diner, Surly Brewery, Bar La Grassa, Victor's 1959, Fuji ya, Masu, Modern Cafe, Black Sheep, Gandhi Mahal, Quang, Jasmine 26, Black Forest Inn, The Peacock, Eat St. Social, and Heggie's pizza at Grumpy's NE.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music/books/movies/art
Cats
coffee
Nature
friends
laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next book I'm writing. Ways to improve self and mind. The state of the environment in decline, loss of wildlife habitat, climate change. Also, events I'll attend near future. Next travel plans - hopefully to San Francisco and Iceland this next year.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing live music with friends or a movie, or just hanging out at a fave bar/pub having beers and conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I'm shy. I don't know how to flirt.
You should message me if
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You have a great sense of humor, sometimes irreverent, are sincere, self-confident, authentic, kind, intelligent, open-minded, self-expressive, don't mind an inquisite nature, creative, interested in at least a few similar things, not an introvert type who prefers staying in most nights - I like a partner who enjoys going to live music and events at least nearly as much as I do . . . doesn't care about sports. Loves to converse and go deep, talk about ideas, are a good listener. Awesome if you're a music-lover, and even better, enjoy lit, films but also cozying while binge-watching awesome thriller, drama or sci-fi series. Points if you like to cook.