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50 Minneapolis, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 30
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Love life, music, films, literature, humor, hanging out and enjoying these with friends. Basically an ambivert, learning toward extrovert. I love seeing live music, movies, eating good food, engaging in good conversations being alone in nature and by water, contemplating life and ways to improve. Not much gets me down except shallow, insincere, judgmental or myopic-sighted people, and people who don't think at least a little about their impact on the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
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Radio show host (many genres such as punk, post-punk, garage, psych, indie-rock, classic rock, experimental, old-time country), radio documentary producer, and book author. A freelance journalist on arts, local history and culture. Spare time . . . cooking, working on health, gardening, herbalism.
I’m really good at
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Making people laugh, open up, share their stories and delight in arts experiences. Communicating, reading people, and with predicting arts/music trends. I'm a good cook. Great with cats and even plants. : )
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say I'm vivacious with joyful spirit that lights up the room. My green eyes, my voice, my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a lifelong literature, movie, music etc. junkie. I am a voracious reader, of really good modern and classic literature, autobiographies, music history, science fiction, fantasy, magic realism, thrillers, indie stuff. Authors: Marlon James, Neil Gaiman, Eggers, Michael Chabon, Donna Tartt, G. R. R. Martin, Michael Pollan, Leslie Marmon Silko, N. Scott Momaday, and Louise Ehrdrich are a few of many fave writers. Longer ago faves include: Tom Robbins, P. K. Dick, William Gibson, Neal Stephenson, Heinlein . . . Currently reading: "A Brief History of Seven Killings," and "The Book Thief" recently finished/loved The Goldfinch, Just Kids, Please Kill Me. Most recent books read: Gone Girl, Game of Thrones Book 1, Hologram for the King by Eggers, LOVESTAR (a dystopian Icelandic novel I LOVED), and LIFE by Keith Richards.

TV: Sherlock, Outlander, Black Mirror, True Detective, Doctor Who, Downton Abbey, Luther, Misfits, Orphan Black (Love BBC). Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, Continuum, Shameless, Hell on Wheels, Happy Valley, Always Sunny in California, Brooklyn 99. Past loves: The Wire, Deadwood, LOST except for the end, Battlestar Galactica, Prime Suspect, Star Trek (all).

Shows: live music, pretty much every genre, at several venues. A few fave local bands of many - Rabbit Holes, Fury Things, Waveless, The Blind Shake, Michael Yonkers, Birthday Suits, Alpha Consumer, Bob Mould, Web of Sunsets, Eleganza, Sam Cassidy, Flasher, Goondas, Iguano, Idle Hands, Flavor Crystals, Dead Gurus, Magic Castles, First Communion Afterparty, Driftwood Pyre, The Knotwells, Dreamland Faces, Charlie Parr, Frankie Lee, the Cactus Blossoms, Buildings, Red Daughters, Night Moves, Chambermaids, Mr. Hide and so, so many more.

To get into but a few fave national/international: Ty Segall, Thee Oh Sees, (most of the San Fran psych scene), The Black Lips, Roky Erickson, The Night Beats, Warlocks, the BJM, Dead Skeletons, Benjamin Booker, The War on Drugs, D'Angelo, Black Angels, The Ghost of a Sabertooth Tiger, Wooden Shjips, David Bowie, Cheap Trick, Rolling Stones, Neil Young, Mudhoney, The Cramps, Savages, Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds, Iggy Pop, Motley Crue, Violent Femmes, the Meat Puppets, Lee Ranaldo and the Dust . . . a few fave bands from the past include: The Litter, Joy Division, The Cure, Queen (all-time fave), The Who, The Kinks, Television, Wire, Suicide, Silver Apples, Sonic Youth, Pink Floyd, The Ramones, Dead Kennedys, Husker Du, The Fall, The Cows, Run Westy Run . . .

Fave food - I like most kinds - but favorites are: Japanese - sushi and ramen; Thai, Vietnamese, Mediterranean, Greek, Spanish, Cuban, quality simple American comfort food, e.g. steak, seafood, roast chicken, pot roast. I also love Irish pub food especially The Anchor fish and chips. Fave restaurants currently also are: Le Town Talk Diner, Bar La Grassa, Victor's 1959, Fuji ya, Masu, Modern Cafe, Black Sheep, Gandhi Mahal, Quang, Jasmine 26, Black Forest Inn, The Peacock, Eat St. Social. And Heggie's pizza at Grumpy's NE.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to improve self, expand on the creative work I'm doing. The state of the environment in decline, loss of wildlife habitat, climate change . . .
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing live music with friends or a movie, or just hanging out at a fave bar/pub having beers and conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I revert to being an introvert to recharge.
You should message me if
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You have a great sense of humor, sometimes irreverent, are sincere, self-confident, authentic, kind, intelligent, is interested in a few to several similar things, not an introvert or one who prefers to stay in most nights . . . a "lumber-punk" - a punk rock friend used the term to describe: punks who wear flannel, dress casual, have beards or moustaches - e.g. the look of Mpls punk musicians in the 90s such as Husker Du, the 'Mats, etc.