I'm very hard working (55-60 hrs a week at work, plus school, plus side-work), and I really enjoy spontaneity, albeit my schedule rarely permits such craziness
I'm incredibly dedicated to my friends, I'll usually volunteer to help them move or fix their cars (I'm a fully trained and experienced automotive and heavy equipment tech).
Right now I'm currently busy building my own life which leaves very little time for distraction. An unfortunate result of this is that I'm really not currently ready for a relationship, although I won't rule anything out.
Good thing is I'm not the type to just "hook up" either, mostly just looking for friends
I guess you could say I'm not the kind of person who feels like they are miserable outside of a relationship, I actually rather enjoy it. I don't feel like my relationship status has any bearing on my happiness and I feel that you should learn to be happy by yourself before you go make someone else's life miserable.
Paying for dinner
Buying nice clothing
And other manly things