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My self-summary Propose an edit

\\ Before you read any of the other stuff answer me this- if I was a boy what would my name be? I'm torn between a few, and would like to start a poll.

Wesley, Ashton, Finnegan (Finn), Andrew, Matthew, Tristan, Jude, Marcus, Ryan

If you feel that the answer is something I haven't mentioned tell me. //

So, for now we'll say my name is Ash. I'm 23 and I currently reside in NJ- but it's only temporary until I move back to Philadelphia, or decide on a graduate school/program.

I identify as a genderqueer feminist pansexual, but my identity changes from day-to-day.

I have a cat, so if you're not a cat person (or at the very least an animal person) we might clash a bit.

Warning: Don't let my appearance fool you- I'm quite girly. I cry at Hallmark commercials.

I pretend to play acoustic guitar. Never wake me up when I'm sleeping because I'll glare at you badly, while rockin' a messy faux hawk. I like my folk loud in the car blasting, and I like to sing along. I have a bit of gay boy in me- I'm well groomed, like to go shopping and know all the words to "Don't Rain on my Parade".

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I graduated from Elmira College last year with two B.A.'s in Psychology and Women's Studies, and afterwards I just kinda fell into a job at Walgreens. Currently I work there as an assistant manager, which is an okay gig for now. I'm hoping to find alternative means of employment once I decided what I "really want to do with my life". I'm toying with the idea of being a veterinarian, a counselor or a professor of Women and Gender Studies. At the moment I'm leaning towards the last because in college my Women's Studies classes were the only classes that led me to verbally abuse people and throw things.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I look like an adolescent boy, I'm tall and skinny, and I wear glasses and have freckles.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books: The Chelsea Whistle, Cunt, Female Masculinity, Other Girls, Nanny Diaries, Illusions, Valencia, Wicked, cheesy dyke novels, and various others.

Movies: Absolutely Fabulous: the Last Shout, Benny & Joon, Best in Show, the Cutting Edge, Empire Records, Enchanted, FIngersmith, Fried Green Tomatoes, GI Jane, Girl Interrupted, Great Expectations, the Heathers, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, the House of Yes, I Heart Huckabees, If These Walls Could Talk I & II, Imagine Me & You, Iron Jawed Angels, Iron Man, Juno, Just Friends, PCU, She's the Man, Tipping the Velvet, Undercover Blues, etc.

Music: A lot of different stuff- but I love a woman with an acoustic guitar. Favorites forever and always are Ani DiFranco and Chris Pureka

Food: I really like a bit of everything, but nothing too crazy, please.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My cat, chocolate, beer, music, my glasses (I'm very blind), sleep?

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

What I want to do with my life, the gender binary, work (as hard as I try not to...)

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Working, mostly. Or you'll find me in Philadelphia.

You should message me if Propose an edit

You've ever seen the shows Absolutely Fabulous or Strangers With Candy and enjoyed them.

You work to oppose the gender binary, or support those who do.

You have feminist ideals and believe in fighting the patriarchy.

You're boyish, androgynous, transgender, or just gender variant.

You're unique (but not pretentious!!)

You're a femme redhead- because they're always the exception to the rule.

You love animals and make a practice of going to shelters to engage the puppies and kiddens. (Need a friend to tag along?)

You know definitively what you want to do occupation wise, or completely love what you're currently doing (tell me your secret).

Or you have NO idea what you want to do with your life, and maybe we can talk it through together.

You enjoy concerts and festivals, and perhaps think you've maybe seen me at one of Ani's shows... because odd are you probably have.

Message me if you want to. :) I'm pretty cool I think.

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