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feelafella

50 / M / Gay / Single

Boston, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:11am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
—
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
—
Offspring
—
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Charmingly imperfect man seeks intelligent, creative, interesting man for companionship and hopefully mutual attraction and love.
Appreciate good education, good manners, and non-couch potatoes.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach music and spread joy.
I’m really good at
Conversation, impromptu entertaining, home repair.
The first things people usually notice about me
Smile, eyes, legs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The God of Small Things, Middlesex, Cold Comfort Farm
Movies: Lilies, Gran Torino, Moonstruck
Food: love it all, especially Paella, nice little fruit tarts, Indian, traditional French, need I go on?
The six things I could never do without
Morning coffee
Fresh air
Afternoon naps
Friends
My niece
Time to think
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to spend the next phase of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting ready for Saturday, I often have to work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's not really that private- I used to scorn late 60s music but recently I can't seem to get enough of it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
This is a hard box for me to fill out; I don't know exactly what draws good people to me, and whenever I have tried to manipulate that process I have made things worse. An internet profile is far inferior to a live meeting, where you can gauge your comfort and ease with someone pretty instantly. So I guess I'm saying, just wing it.