I'm an unconventional guy, leading an unconventional life.
I moved to Baltimore a few years ago, and I've adjusted nicely to city life after years of suburban living. I finally know my way around the city for the most part, but if you have a cool place to suggest, I'm always up for an adventure.
I'm a pretty rational guy- at least when it comes to emotional expression. In other respects? I'm quite ridiculous. I stop in my tracks to make friends with stray cats... I love going to gatherings, parties and other events just to see what could happen. I don't like my life to be intensely structured...I work on whims most of the time. I'm a big kid in a lot of ways, with some aged wisdom thrown in there, for good measure.
Over the last few years, my relationship style has mainly shifted to polyamory. No, I'm not Mormon, nor do I want to collect wives and/or form a harem...I just don't see the point of jealousy and possessiveness anymore. I do strongly believe that one person can't be everything another person needs or wants, and it took years of relationship trial and error to realize this. And no, it's not about having sex with everything that moves! It's more about leaving my life open to possibilities, and the richness of experience that you can't get by limiting yourself strictly to only one love. So, to that end, be aware that I'm not looking for a monogamous relationship...nor do I expect anyone I meet, or form a relationship with, to be monogamous only to me.