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24 Surabaya, Indonesia Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15, 2014
Black, Native American, White
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Indonesian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I really like eating food. Glad that's out of the way.

I want to be able to talk to you about East of Eden and The Great Gatsby but also about dolphins and outer space and The Strokes.

I like feminism (sorry I'm not sorry lolololol), I like my totally non-supermodel body, and I like my hair in its natural state. These things together are just crazy bananas to some dudes, but it's true. I like literature and movies. I like Chicago and I love London. I'm a writer, and I'm trying to stay true blue toward the craft. I'll show you the zines and chapbooks I've published if you show me yours.
What I’m doing with my life
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First Chicago, then LA, now I've been living in Indonesia for a year and a half teaching English with the Peace Corps. I spend a lot of time trying to discern different smells on the street. I thought I wanted to write for film, but that turned out not to be true, so now I'm just going to teach and write for me and for people who like to read and for people who like to laugh and cry and feel their hearts split down the middle. If that doesn't work out, I'll probably become a traveling fortune teller really just because I want a reason to collect new Tarot decks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing opera. Doing accents. Making a fool out of myself. Beer. Baking. Painting my own nails. Jeopardy. Crafty things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually, people think I hate them. This perturbs me. I don't hate you (probably). That's just the way my face looks. And I'm quiet because I'm reserving judgment until I get to know you better. Or I could just hate you. MYSTERY.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Steinbeck, Faulkner, Sherman Alexie, Dave Eggers, David Foster Wallace, Junot Diaz, John Green.

Movies: David Fincher. Katherine Bigelow. Aaron Sorkin. Alfonso Cuaron. Richard Linklater. God, I wish there were more female directors.

Shows: Parks and Rec, Homeland, House of Cards, Girls, Breaking Bad

Music: Cage the Elephant. Radiohead. Regina Spektor. The Strokes. Jack's Mannequin/Something Corporate. Joni Mitchell. Explosions in the Sky. Arcade Fire. The Kooks. Young the Giant. Metric. The Joy Formidable. The Wombats. YACHT. Uknown Mortal Orchestra.

As for food, yes I like it. And I am the Ultimate Master of Guacamole. That's all you need to know.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All of my breasts, plus the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get my okcupid profile to accurately reflect who I am as a person. I WILL NEVER GET IT RIGHT, WILL I?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now, working and getting ranch spilled into my shoe and immediately recognizing all the people I serve who have never worked in the service industry. If you take nothing else away from my profile take this - please tip your servers well. If not for me, then do it so they don't call you an asshole twenty-four times behind your back after you leave and steal the horrible and expensive D&G sunglasses you left at your table.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I hate pants.
You should message me if
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You're not full of bullshit. Seriously, go ahead and do a quick self-assessment of your own bullshit percentage, and if it seems reasonable, message me with 1) your favorite sentence from Faulkner or 2) why you think Faulkner sucks or 3) why you have never read or never want to read Faulkner. Or whatever you want. Points for being stupidly funny or heartbreakingly poetic. But if all I get is a "hey how u doin", I'll assume you didn't even read my profile and unless you're really, really, ridiculously good-looking, I'm gonna ignore you. :D