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femanimate

29 / M / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:33pm
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
My background is culturally diverse. I aim to consider all perspectives I come into contact with and discern the content of my experiences rather than judge it. While I'm male, I'm also genderfluid - I'm pretty well split between masculine and feminine; an androgyne. I am attracted to ultra feminine people. I cook complex dishes from scratch because I yearn to understand details. I'm a student of hard sciences but over the years have taken more and more to the arts as my passions reveal themselves. I love high fashion. Intelligence is sexy. Knowing and honestly expressing yourself is sexy. Sexual fetishism is endlessly intriguing to me. I'm kinky.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. Knowing and thoughtfully sculpting myself. Befriending good people and having a buoyant time together doing whatever the fuck makes us happy, because this existence is finite.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm probably not from around here... the aussie accent usually gives it away
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Into The Wild, The Shawshank Redemption, The Matrix...... and Amélie, American Beauty, Anchorman, Black Swan, Boys Don't Cry, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Freddy Got Fingered, Frida, Kill Bill, No Country For Old Men, Once Upon A Time In Mexico, Secretary, Snatch, South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut, The Motorcycle Diaries, The Secret Of NIMH, Waking Life

Shows: Project Runway, Trailer Park Boys, Californication, Dexter, Anthony Bourdain, Survivorman...... although I hardly ever watch tv

Music: The Flashbulb / Benn Jordan, Isis, Explosions In The Sky, Neutral Milk Hotel, Stumbleine, God Is An Astronaut, Sleepy Eyes Of Death, The Mars Volta...... and Aes Dana, Amiina, Amon Tobin, Aphex Twin / Richard D. James, Battles, Beirut, Björk, Blonde Redhead, Blouse, Blue Sky Black Death, Boards of Canada, Bon Jovi, Bonobo, Carbon Based Lifeforms, Caspian, Christ., Cyanwave, Daughter, Desolate, Dextro, Efterklang, Elysian Fields, Emancipator, Ferry Corsten, Fugees, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Guns 'n Roses, Henry Saiz, I'm Not A Gun, Immortal Technique, James Blackshaw, James Holden, James Zabiela, Jedi Mind Tricks, Jewel, Joanna Newsom, John '00' Fleming, Kaddisfly, Kashiwa Daisuke, M83, Metallica, Mos Def, Motor Ace, múm, Portishead, PVT / Pivot, Radiohead, Russian Circles, Róisín Murphy, Sigur Rós, Solar Fields, Son Kite, Sound Tribe Sector 9, Sun Control Species, Team Ghost, Telefon Tel Aviv, Tennis, The Album Leaf, The Books, The Cinematic Orchestra, This Will Destroy You, Tool, Trentemøller, Tycho, Vibrasphere, Warpaint, Welder, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Zammuto

Food: Singaporean / Peranakan, French, Vietnamese, Thai, Indian, Japanese, Italian, Mexican, Tex-Mex, Middle Eastern, BAKING
The six things I could never do without
choons
hair products
latex
stilettos
capsaicin
onions
being able to count
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Fashion that makes a person look and feel amazing. Grocery lists, what I'm going to cook next, how I'm going to photograph it and who I'm going to feed it to. Gender and the landscapes thereof - especially my own. How to manifest my intentions.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 24–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
- you believe in honesty of one's character
- you are willingly vulnerable to and value the development of meaningful friendships
- it seems like we are philosophically, musically, sexually or fetishistically like-minded
- you push or disregard the boundaries of societal/cultural norms, like the gender binary
- you're passionate about fashion... design / fetishism / haute couture / Gareth Pugh / Iris Van Herpen / Alexander McQueen / Atsuko Kudo / Julia Lundsten (Finsk) / Daphne Guinness / Seth Aaron Henderson / Irina Shabayeva / Mondo Guerra
- you go confidently in the direction of your dreams, and live the life you've imagined (shout out to Thoreau)