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21 Ottawa, Ontario, CA Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Androgynous, Genderfluid, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:19pm
Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am artistic, passionate and down to earth, which does wonders for helping people out with personal problems. I am Queer, a quiet feminist (Healer not a Fighter), I helped dev a Game once (Long story).

I'm in the arts! I should be drawing EVERY WAKING MOMENT but instead I'm playing video games and wishing i could binge on Netflix.

I am in an open relationship with a super cool ferret obsessed lady. (Imagine a crazy cat lady but with better hygiene and she hung her cats out to dry as kittens for so long they grew in length!!!) But she's like, "cool and stuff" :P

I'm shy at first but I warm up to people quickly! ^_^
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying Bartending and Concept Art and Illustration at Algonquin College, for the longest of times I felt like school was a drag until I spent a year out of it, and until I have a secure job I feel like school is a must for myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
That whole thing where you start a conversation? Yeah... Not that! Shy as fuck.

I spend a lot of time in my head, listening to poets philosophers, heeding wisemen/women and learning from people younger than I. I like conversations. I like discussion, debate, contrasting opinions! A reason to see another side of something more than a vicarious devil's advocate.

Keeping an intellectual conversation going (Or one equally lacking in intelligence xD)
Making an excellent cup of coffee/tea
Making an excellent cocktail
Walking in heels (ask about the adventures i've had in ballet boots)
Never getting lost. (Partially because I know when to just ask for help)
Completely missing the point.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm really animated?
My feminine disposition or that I look younger than I am. Or my hair. :T
People do double-takes! It's flattering, honest! I enjoy it when people who don't know much about Gender identities are kept on their toes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Divine Comedy but honestly I don't read much but I am always willing to take a good suggestion.
Movies: Oh god... Too long of a list. A lot of Best film winners but not always so mainstream. Ask! We can make a day out of comparing what we've seen or haven't the same way kids used to compare trading cards in the school yard (Got, want, etc)
Shows: BBC Sherlock, Hemlock Grove, Haven't seen Game of Thrones (If you have the series or something please show me~ <3 Love you long time)
Music: All genres! But my favorites are Electronic, Classical and Metal
Food: Sushi or Italian food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee and tea
Intellectual Stimuli
Adventure / Mischief
Awesome Hoodies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Poetry and wordplay
Dancing and wishing I could :P
Songwriting and singers
Movies and actors
Art and muses
Design and concept art
Video Games
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually indoors but I do my best to go out and hang with friends either at their place or at parties or whatever.

On days when shyness takes its toll I'm usually busy playing video games like league of legends or FTL with friends or watching movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a sub. I'll let your mind wander to all the possibilities that entails. (You're probably on the right track)

I have an unhealthy relationship with emotes, they're everywhere! Half my edits are to take out ones I put at the beginning and end of each sentence!
You should message me if
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*Please, by all means, message me first! :D It means the world to me!*
If you are curious about anything, or just want to say hi! :D I'm friendly and I only bite a little. :3

You want to talk! Talking! Yes! That thing with the conversing and words and such! So good, yes.... sorry, what was I saying?

I know it's cliche. But I love going for coffee and chatting!