, fat, self-maintaining, High Femme
. Middle Eastern
performer and teacher and burlesque performer. Fun,
fierce, gentle, hilarious, kind, mindful girl/diva/kitten/dyke who
enjoys travel, dressing up, laughing so hard it hurts, a good book,
self and other exploration and live music.
I am juicy, vivacious, and quivering
What I’m doing with my life
Dancing for survival. Working in an office for food, clothes,
fluevogs and other material goods.
I’m really good at
Dancing, making myself laugh, being luscious, and counseling my
friends on making good decisions (and being modest obviously).
The first things people usually notice about me
my laugh and my bountiful heaving bosoms (so much so that if you
comment on my bountiful heaving bosoms in your first correspondence
with me, you're probably not going to get to a second. Just a
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Trash, The Persistent Desire, Femme's Guide to the Universe,
This Bridge Called My Back, anything by Cherie Huber or Octavia
Movies: Main Hoon Na, Imitation of Life, Whatever Happened to Baby
Jane, Sugar High Glitter City, Harold and Maude, Ma Vie en Rose,
Kal Ho Naa Ho, Secretary
TV: Friday Night Lights, House, Buffy, Doctor Who, Torchwood,
Arrested Development Curb Your Enthusiasm
Music: really, pretty much anything (I used to say, "but country",
even that's growing on me). Nina Simone, Oum Kalthoum, Fatme
Serhan, Warda, Jill Scott, Samy Ali, Farid Al Atrache, Mohammed Al
Wahid, Portishead, Mirah, Devotchka, D'Angelo.
Food: Bardia's veggie gumbo, Mandalay's green papaya salad, Super
Taco & Bakery's burritos, Lauriol Plaza's salmon a la parilla,
Asylum's vegan brunch, Zaytinya's calamari and spanikopita, my aunt
Vicky's sweet potato cake and freaking anything from Founding
The six things I could never do without
friends, dance, laughter, music, good books, and tight dresses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
* I'm all about share and share alike, so if you want to know more,
tell me a little about yourself and I'll probably answer any
questions you have.
You should message me if
you're openminded, gentlemanly, know how to give a compliment and
have a sense of humor (it's trite, but damn if it ain't
In general, it's the folks on the masculine spectrum (FTMs, studs,
butches, and masculine genderqueer folks) who turn me on, but I do
love the curve of a femme's ass (and sass) so it's less about
gender than it is about a nuanced relationship with gender.
Regardless, I'm always up for making new friends!