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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 10, 2014
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Doesn’t want kids
My self-summary
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Queer, fat, self-maintaining, High Femme. Middle Eastern dance performer and teacher and burlesque performer. Fun, fierce, gentle, hilarious, kind, mindful girl/diva/kitten/dyke who enjoys travel, dressing up, laughing so hard it hurts, a good book, self and other exploration and live music.

I am juicy, vivacious, and quivering
What I’m doing with my life
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Dancing for survival. Working in an office for food, clothes, fluevogs and other material goods.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, making myself laugh, being luscious, and counseling my friends on making good decisions (and being modest obviously).
The first things people usually notice about me
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my laugh and my bountiful heaving bosoms (so much so that if you comment on my bountiful heaving bosoms in your first correspondence with me, you're probably not going to get to a second. Just a hint...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Trash, The Persistent Desire, Femme's Guide to the Universe, This Bridge Called My Back, anything by Cherie Huber or Octavia Butler.

Movies: Main Hoon Na, Imitation of Life, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Sugar High Glitter City, Harold and Maude, Ma Vie en Rose, Kal Ho Naa Ho, Secretary

TV: Friday Night Lights, House, Buffy, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Arrested Development Curb Your Enthusiasm

Music: really, pretty much anything (I used to say, "but country", even that's growing on me). Nina Simone, Oum Kalthoum, Fatme Serhan, Warda, Jill Scott, Samy Ali, Farid Al Atrache, Mohammed Al Wahid, Portishead, Mirah, Devotchka, D'Angelo.

Food: Bardia's veggie gumbo, Mandalay's green papaya salad, Super Taco & Bakery's burritos, Lauriol Plaza's salmon a la parilla, Asylum's vegan brunch, Zaytinya's calamari and spanikopita, my aunt Vicky's sweet potato cake and freaking anything from Founding Farmers.
The six things I could never do without
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friends, dance, laughter, music, good books, and tight dresses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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* I'm all about share and share alike, so if you want to know more, tell me a little about yourself and I'll probably answer any questions you have.
You should message me if
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you're openminded, gentlemanly, know how to give a compliment and have a sense of humor (it's trite, but damn if it ain't important).

In general, it's the folks on the masculine spectrum (FTMs, studs, butches, and masculine genderqueer folks) who turn me on, but I do love the curve of a femme's ass (and sass) so it's less about gender than it is about a nuanced relationship with gender. Regardless, I'm always up for making new friends!