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29 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:11am
Pacific Islander, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Got a rad pitbull now, so I hang out with him, mostly.

I play in a very fulfilling/challenging band.

I try to speak Spanish.

I try to find time for trees and streams and birds and shit.

Generally a good kid.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recognizing that the cortisol levels in my blood during a typical restaraunt shift are fine, but in the long run, not sustainable, I'm kinda constantly considering my next move.

I went to music school and then spent my early-middle 20s doing weird shit in an attempt to make up some coming-of-age ritual and/or find myself. I did a solo cross-country bicycle ride, lived in a cabin off-the-grid, lived in a subaru, and wrote a lotta pop songs.

Now I'm of-age, and though I haven't found any magical skeleton-key parts of myself, I figure I probably know enough to build a life I'm reasonably psyched about now.

Or rather:
Doing my best
to practice
b a l a n c e .

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In the long run, I think I'll be able to say "that dude was pretty good at relaxing into time." Which I'm not GREAT at yet. But you know, it's cool.

But currently:
Chord progressions.
Being uncomfortable and complaining only jokingly.
Using the wrong tool but getting the job done.
Poetry? (Hah)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
usually flailing about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is a time machine and I wanna go to the future. So wutchu got?

My favorite books right now are manuals for analog synths.

Lately I only watch kids movies in spanish. I've seen Buscando a Nemo like 30 times.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Friends don't let friends talk about real estate.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My Friday is Tuesday, and I'm often in my backyard having a fire with the homies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess I'm sober for a year. On my 30th birthday I wanna get some peyote and go out into the woods alone and be weird, but until then, I'm smuggling kombucha into bars.

And I guess I care about numerology.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like pitbulls (mine is very cool).

You live in W. Oakland.

You figure life is less-shitty everyday.

You want my bod (it's aight).

You don't mind dirt.