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fernant1

44 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Portuguese (Okay), C++

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A few snapshots:

-Mariachi school dropout.
-More than tours of places and catalogs of adventures, I like to live the culture and meet the people.
-I have harvested grapes, lived, and studied in a few different countries. I also liked sailing home old style.

We could be a good match if you enjoy the simple things in life. You are warmhearted, easygoing, and happy.

The fine print: I am from the Caribbean but I sunburn easily, usually wear glasses, speak English with an accent, and love cake, pasta, and pizza but need to avoid gluten :(
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-Nowadays, I relish my walk to a challenging engineering job in Berkeley.
-I also work at an urban winery during harvest.
-I paint and windsurf (non simultaneously).
-I learned a lot by tutoring a middle school class, I hope to do that again in the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being patient, figuring how things work, balancing skill and intuition, diplomacy ( I am a middle child ), seeing the other side, stone skipping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Accent, smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Kind of indie in music and movies. I suppose that exact matches are not to be expected or desired in this section :)
Books: Places in Between, Brothers Karamazov, Catcher in the Rye.
Film: Life of Others, La Haine, Night on Earth, The Commitments, The Shawshank Redemption, Gattaca, Vengo.
Music: Currently listening to "Saadiq - Good Man", "Phenomenal Handclap Band - Baby", "Buika - No Habrá Nadie En El Mundo". New Raemon, Joy Division, Scott Pilgrim soundtrack, Sharon Jones, Wild Nothing, Pixies, Dutronc, Smog, Juan Luis Guerra, fast salsa and zydeco!...
Food: Persian, seafood, tapas, dark chocolate, kale, blueberries. Just to give some samples.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assurance that the ocean is near (I am an islander)
Family
Wineries
Painting
Music
Warmth (literally and figuratively)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Rocking chairs and hammocks are great inventions. Somehow, I get the same feeling from windsurfing.
-Wouldn't it be nice if one of those runners hired to set the pace early in a race rescinds the contract and goes all the way to win?
-How to be helpful to co-workers, friends, strangers.
-Adding horn section solos to guitar based music.
-Phone zombies are everywhere!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a figure drawing circle. Figuring out where there is good food with not much of a wait line.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hey! I already disclosed my fine print above.
You should message me if
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Decisions, we are alive!