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45 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:39am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Okay), C++

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A few snapshots:

- At work, gathering physicists in search of a root cause or climbing this or that tank cultivating wine purple hands.

- Deeper inspiration for a painting from the wrinkled story of an elder and the crisp imagination of children.

- Were those commutes rather soothing?: The Venice vaporetto, the Firenze autobus, the Vienna U-bahn, the flatbed camion near Lyon, and the walk in Berkeley.

- Imagine, floating on the beach while it starts raining. Meditation, daydream, or memory? Perhaps. It's like sipping on the cup of time :) We could be a good match if you are warmhearted and enjoy the simple things in life.

The fine print: I am from the Caribbean but I sunburn, usually wear glasses, speak English with an accent, and need to avoid gluten.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
- I relish my walk to a challenging engineering job in Berkeley.
- I also work at an urban winery during harvest.
- I paint and windsurf (non simultaneously).
- I learned a lot by tutoring a middle school class and I hope to do that again in the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring how things work, balancing skill and intuition, diplomacy ( I am a middle child ), seeing the other side, being patient, stone skipping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Accent, smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Kind of "indie" in music and movies. I also think that local is very good: farmers' markets, trails, hiking up a mountain, ocean, and dancing.

Books: Places in Between, Brothers Karamazov, Catcher in the Rye. (I like the paradox that fiction can tell a greater truth.)
Film: Life of Others, Sound of Noise, The Shawshank Redemption, Gattaca, Vengo, Patema Inverted.
Music: Joy Division, Sharon Jones, Wild Nothing, Pixies, Dutronc, Smog, Magnetic Fields, Blonde Redhead, Juan Luis Guerra, fast salsa and zydeco!... Boccherini, Chopin nocturnes...
Food: Vietnamese, Korean, Persian, seafood, tapas, dark chocolate, kale, blueberries. Just to give some samples. I like to cook!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assurance that the ocean is near (I am an islander)
Warmth (literally and figuratively)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Actually, don't think so much :) [doesn't intuition account for something?].
- Encouraging the underdogs.
- Adding horn section solos to guitar based music.
- Phone zombies are everywhere! Let's stay tuned-in to leisure time :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a figure drawing circle. Figuring out where there is good food with not much of a wait line.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hey! I already disclosed my fine print above.
You should message me if
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Decisions, we are alive!