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45 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Okay), C++

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My self-summary
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Enjoying the blessings and the lessons in life. A few snapshots:

- More than tours of places and catalogs of adventures, I like to live the culture and meet the people.
- I have helped make wine, lived, and studied in a few different countries. I also liked sailing home old style.
- I think that rocking chairs and hammocks are great inventions.
- Just returned from a month long art residency and exhibit in Sicily (12/2014).

I am looking forward to building a wonderful relationship. We could be a good match if you enjoy the simple things in life. You are warmhearted, compassionate, and happy.

The fine print: I am from the Caribbean but I sunburn easily, usually wear glasses, speak English with an accent, and love cake, pasta, and pizza but need to avoid gluten :(
What I’m doing with my life
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- I relish my walk to a challenging engineering job in Berkeley.
- I also work at an urban winery during harvest.
- I paint and windsurf (non simultaneously).
- I learned a lot by tutoring a middle school class and I hope to do that again in the future.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being patient, figuring how things work, balancing skill and intuition, diplomacy ( I am a middle child ), seeing the other side, stone skipping.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Accent, smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kind of indie in music and movies. I suppose that exact matches are not to be expected or desired in this section :) I also think that local is very good: farmers' markets, trails, hiking up a mountain, ocean, and dancing.

Books: Places in Between, Brothers Karamazov, Catcher in the Rye. (I like the paradox that fiction can tell a greater truth.)
Film: Life of Others, La Haine, Night on Earth, The Commitments, The Shawshank Redemption, Gattaca, Vengo.
Music: Currently listening to "Saadiq - Good Man", "Buika - No Habrá Nadie En El Mundo". Joy Division, Scott Pilgrim soundtrack, Sharon Jones, Wild Nothing, Pixies, Dutronc, Smog, Magnetic Fields, Juan Luis Guerra, fast salsa and zydeco!...
Food: Persian, seafood, tapas, dark chocolate, kale, blueberries. Vietnamese, Korean, Just to give some samples. I like to cook!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Assurance that the ocean is near (I am an islander)
Warmth (literally and figuratively)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Encouraging the underdogs: Wouldn't it be nice if one of those runners hired to set the pace early in a race rescinds the contract and goes all the way to win?
- Adding horn section solos to guitar based music.
- Phone zombies are everywhere!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a figure drawing circle. Figuring out where there is good food with not much of a wait line.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hey! I already disclosed my fine print above.
You should message me if
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Decisions, we are alive!