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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20-50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 3
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Goodness, I have been a bit bat at OKC lately- my profile was hopelessly out of date, so I suppose it's time for a rewrite.
I'm a laid-back, creative, generally pleasant human being; I am easily excited by trying new things, ideas, and making stuff; I'm a little bit geeky, but not as much as I would like to be.

I'm a classically trained musician, and my favourite new thing to do is act, so it's fair to say I enjoy being on stage. I'm not shy, but I sometimes have to remind myself to make small talk, which sometimes leads to people thinking I am. Oh well.

I make my living teaching music to people of varying ages, notably in various schools around London, and it's a fine job to have for now. It does take up more of my time than I would like, but given how many people seem to be unemployed at the moment I don't think I'll complain too loudly. Some of my students are really smart and curious, and I genuinely enjoy teaching them.

I quite enjoy a quiet evening at home, going to see a show, taking various classes (acting, for example), going on long walks in the city, cooking strange new foods (well, I'm a vegetarian, so not too strange), reading, train rides, and other intellectually adventurous activities. I have a hard time with the 'drinking as a leisure activity' thing, but I do like a good chat with an interesting person.

I'm currently in an open relationship, but I'm not really the slutty type; I tend to pursue a small number of meaningful relationships rather than hold on to lots of vague acquaintances. The same goes for both friendships and romances. I'm a very open-minded and adventurous person in the right circumstances, but if you're after a quick tumble I'm probably not what you're after.

It's worth mentioning as well that I'm transgendered- I used to be a woman. I pass easily and am generally not hung up about it, but if it weirds you out then, again, I may not be what you're looking for. And again, oh well!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, learning things, trying things... Looking forward to having more time to pursue my own interests.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Also the bass clarinet (the instrument I trained on), and cooking.
I'm also a fantastic snuggler, just ask my cat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've no idea, what have you noticed so far?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have rather diverse taste, and rather less time than I'd like to read and watch movies. I enjoy a good piece of classic literature, a cheezy bit of sci-fi, and an occasional oddly specific cookbook to whet the appetite. Current favourites are Doctor Who, Star Trek, Haruki Murakami, Stephen Fry, Shakespeare, George R Martin, The Hobbit/Lord of the Rings, Charles Dickens, Margaret Atwood, and many more. One day I will own a house with a library.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Laptop, a good book, tofu, my cat, comfy jammies, a sense of adventure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My internal monologue is pretty much a constant stream of culturally irrelevant randomness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, writing, out at a show, watching a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think I'm a pretty open book, actually... I am not sure what I'd posit as confidential personal information. Go on, ask me a really invasive question if you want to. I'm not scared of you, OkCupid!
You should message me if
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We share common interests, i suppose, or if you just want to tell me I'm cute.