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32 • Knoxville, TN • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–60
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Yesterday – 6:29pm
- 5′ 9″ (1.75m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Aries, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of Ph.D program
- Seeing Someone
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I'm gearing up to move back to California soon, and my dance card is very full at the moment so this site is not my highest priority.
**I AM NOT LOOKING TO DATE ANYONE NEW AT THIS TIME**
If you choose to message me anyway- I welcome friends and great experiences- be aware that I am using several email filters and I delete messages that look like they could be cut and pasted to several profiles, even if you are nice and we are a high match.
I have a special love for tea and going out to dinner by myself. I love traveling and trying new things, but paradoxically I tend to be a bit of a hermit these days.
I love art but have no real eye or hand for it. In a perfect world I'd surround myself with artists to help coax me out of my overly practical self from time to time. I'm an INTJ.
Because folks keep asking: the cane is to help me walk, not a fashion statement. It also helps me to thwack people, poke things, and catch things before they blow away.
I like books that make me think. I have a huge book collection but I've read less of it than I would like to admit. I think the best novels are concisely written and reveal something important about human nature.
There isn't much music that I *don't* like. I'm especially fond of Aphex Twin and industrial music. Lately I've been listening to a lot of pop/R&B and 90's rock. It varies. As long as the music doesn't make me cringe I'm generally delighted to hear new things.
Most of the genres of movies and shows have their place depending on my mood. I prefer my horror movies with a healthy dose of camp. I have a wicked sense of humor that ranges from 12 years old to biting sarcasm, and yet I am easily offended if you know how. Thusly I love comedy but it can be a struggle to find comedy that 'feels right', especially out in public.
I live for moments. Moments that take my breath away, that make me laugh and see the beauty in things, moments that make me roll my eyes at the world while I develop more patience.
If I'm forced to pick a few of the creature comforts, that would probably be plumbing and modern medicine.
I don't know how to relate to completely straight people or folks that have never worked with their hands.
My brother thinks I should filter all my OKC emails to eliminate anything pulled out of a PUA forum. Hmm. If you don't know what that means, you might not be an idiot.
-You've read my whole profile and think we might have something in common.
-You dig and respect hermits
-You'd be up for skill sharing (I love to learn from people!)
-You are open to kind, radical honesty
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