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59 • Berkeley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 42–52
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Judaism, but not too serious about it
- Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
I'm a curious collection of traits and quirks...very smart, have a sense of humor (see above), sensitive, empathetic, lively, and fun. I'm quite outdoorsy....like to hike, bike, walk, explore, lay in the sun, but also indoorsey....like to cook up a tasty dinner (cooking with a special friend...sipping a glass of red and chattering about everything and nothing is a special treat), watch a game, talk about what's going on in the world (I follow politics and current events...but not the People magazine kind of current events...those are just white noise to me), read a book, and just relax....I like the Italian idea of "la dolce fare niente" (the sweetness of doing nothing). Oh and chocolate.... can't forget that...do you prefer dark or milk (yes, this is a test)...
Some other random factoids: have a house (that I designed), a cat (that I did not design...although I adore her), a comfortable life, enough free time, and senses of humor, passion, compassion, and the absurd. Also common sense...and some uncommon senses, too.
I'm looking for a sweetheart/partner in crime (don't worry, mostly minor infractions;-), with whom to explore, laugh, cry, be playful and silly, share serious times, hold hands, travel, cook, cuddle, and wake up on the morning wrapped up in each other...saying with our eyes, "we did that!?"....and bursting into laughter...
I could go on...but you get the picture...if not, well, my picture's on the next page;-)
As for music...I gravitate towards singer songwriter types...with clever and insightful lyrics and some sort of passion...
oh...and the kitty
Is there both private and most private? Isn't that kind of like like virgin and extra virgin?
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