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festithecat

59 Berkeley, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 42–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:42pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello and welcome to my self summary section. I suppose I could just ramble on for a bit...not great at self promoting, but, if we hit it off, am likely to be one of the best friends you've ever had. You might want to have a glass of wine before reading on...and get comfortable...people should be comfortable.

I'm a very bright, extroverted introvert with an unusual way of seeing things. I'm really good at finding creative solutions to problems....and have a kind heart. I can laugh in most situations....and am sensitive, empathetic, lively, and fun. I'm also quite outdoorsy....like to hike, bike, walk, explore, lay in the sun, but also indoorsey....like to cook up a tasty dinner (cooking with a special friend...sipping a glass of red and chattering about everything and nothing is a special treat), watch a game, talk about what's going on in the world (I follow politics and current events...but not the People magazine kind of current events...those are just white noise), read a book, and just relax....I like the Italian idea of "la dolce fare niente" (the sweetness of doing nothing). Oh and chocolate.... can't forget that...do you prefer dark or milk (yes, this is a test)?

Some other random factoids: have a house (that I designed), am financially stable, responsible, and well educated....

I'm looking for a sweetheart/partner in crime (don't worry, mostly minor infractions;-), with whom to explore, laugh, cry, be playful and silly, share serious times, hold hands, travel, cook, cuddle, and wake up on the morning wrapped up in each other...saying with our eyes, "we did that!?"....and bursting into laughter. Mostly I'm seeking a woman with integrity, humor, a kind heart, playful spirit, and shart wit with whom to banter, talk, and mutually be there for. I get that there's both light and dark in the world...and want a partner for all of it....

Like most people, I enjoy traveling...and hold two passports...have US and Italian citizenships....and feel at home both places...despite not speaking Italian well....

Life's stories are important...I'm happy to swap them as we get along. I could go on...but you get the picture...if not, well, my picture's on the next page;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to make the world a better place...while still earning a living and keeping senses of humor and perspective...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking up a tasty meal from whatever's in the house, oddly insightful connections, connections, seeing the big picture, being there for friends, compassion, passion, analyzing things, making people laugh, fixing bikes....oh, and reviewing environmental impact reports...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
oddly, probably my eyebrows...and my voice...it's deep, and people really seem to like it...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
food: anything fresh and home made...with veggies that came out of a garden...have a weakness for italian pastries of all types...chocolate covered creme puffs....bbq.....tagine chicken with figs....mmm.....

As for music...I gravitate towards singer songwriter types...with clever and insightful lyrics and some sort of passion...

Movies....mostly quirky indie films...not a big fan of Hollywood blockbusters...Sugar Man, Side Walls, Beginners....many more...oh, and Heaven, my all time favorite Cate Blanchette flick...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
kindness
chocolate
friends
intellectual stimulation
travel
...and you?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the state of the world, what to have for dinner, how to be a better person, what makes people tick, why some cultures get it...and others don't, words, ideas, passions, compassions...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a glass of wine, visiting with friends, walking, curled up on a warm couch, out to eat, cooking up something tasty....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I admitted it, it wouldn't be private, now would it?

Is there both private and most private? Isn't that kind of like like virgin and extra virgin?
You should message me if
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something here strikes a chord...and you think we'd connect;-)