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47 F Ventura, CA

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Yesterday – 5:40pm
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm a native Venturan who appreciates the paradise that surrounds us.

I thrive on being active, both physically and mentally. I like to get outside to garden, hike, stroll, maybe bike, maybe run, sight-see and explore. I'm a pretty big sports fan, especially for baseball, I bleed Dodger blue.

I have a furry four-legged friend that is my side-kick. She means a lot to me but I keep it in perspective.

I long to learn new things and try new things but haven't been too successful (or brave enough) on my own to venture out.

I'm not interested in any drama. I would like to meet new people, make new friends, have some special people in my life and, if I'm lucky, find someone to love. I need to have some fun in my life, because although right now I do things I enjoy, I can't really say that I'm having much fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working too hard and not having enough fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering to put the clothes from the washer into the dryer.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm quite compact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - mostly been reading text books lately but did manage to squeeze in Hunger Games.
Movies - needs to be interesting, uplifting and/or funny, can't handle anything depressing
Music - really all over the place, my iPod has Van Halen, Aerosmith, Train, Sara Bareilles, Eminem, Kenny Loggins and AC/DC just to name a few
Food - love CA cuisine (light & fresh), sushi, Italian, Mexican, etc. just about anything but not so into Thai or Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family & my dog
Exercise & activity
Coffee (not the mocha/latte type, but just coffee)
Warm weather/sunshine
My backyard and garden
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Home improvements for my house.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching the Dodgers.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 43–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Although it's a boost to my ego to get messages from the 20-something and 30-something guys, I just don't see how that would work out so message me if you're over the age of 40, live in Ventura County (west county preferred) or southern SB county - I just do not have enough time in my schedule to drive more than 30 minutes one way for a date. I simply prefer to have new friends closer by.