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40 Schenectady, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 10:09am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Catholicism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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First and foremost I am a great dad to my beautiful and amazing 8 year old daughter. She is my world and I love spending what time I can with her. We have so much fun together but I miss having that special someone to spend time with after she goes to bed.
I enjoy pampering the ones I care about and am old fashioned when it comes to dating. I believe that a man should try to sweep a woman off her feet and show her his feelings in the little things. To me that says more than a big gesture. Anyone can buy a dozen roses on Valentine's Day, but to me it is more romantic to bring home 1 flower when she doesn't expect it.

I love watcing and playing sports, most kinds of movies and country music, though I do listen to other kinds, like '80s and '90s. I'm not too much into rap. I enjoy going out to listening to bands or staying in and playing board games with friends.

I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am very patient and easy going and am just looking for that special someone who I can be myself with and whom I share a mutual attraction with. I hope she is out there...I haven't given up yet.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am balancing working in the healthcare field, raising my daughter part time and being a volunteer firefighter...all 3 things that I love. But of course spending time with a special someone is what I am missing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being patient and understanding. I don't usually fly off the handle at people. I'm pretty calm and down to earth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually people notice what a nice guy I am, almost to a fault. Sometimes I can be too nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read nearly as much as I should but I usually like nonfiction, history and biography books. I have read 102 minutes 3 times and it still brings me to tears.

I love a ton of movies but my favorites would include the Star Wars series ( I know, nerd), Old School, Adam Sandler or Will Ferrell movies.

I don't watch too much TV but I love watching sports, The Office, Friends, Rescue Me and the shows from the 80's and 90's on the Hub.
I love country music, Zak Brown, Brad Paisley, Toby Kieth and Brooks and Dunn are my favorites (yes I know they broke up). I do listen to other stuff and can pretty much handle anything.

I love to grill. My daughter and I love salmon, steak, pork or burgers on the grill. I eat almost everything. Not too much seafood or sushi. Haven't tried too much of it though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My daughter and the rest of my family
2. My dog
3. My phone
4. My sense of humor
5. Fun
6. God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, where I want to be and how I can get there. I have so much in my life that I am thankful for and I wouldn't change how I got here. I just know that I want more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spening the night with my daughter, laughing and playing or watching a show with her. It is a great way to put an end to a work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had trouble smiling lately...I am like Chandler from friends.
You should message me if
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You are looking for someone who you can trust to build a relationship with. I am serious about trying to find someone to spend my life with.