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Sur-Realist Away

31 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, Hispanic / Latin
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I consider myself to be a kind and giving person. Friends have said I am very friendly, nonjudgmental, open-minded, and always a gentleman. I am Cuban/Lebanese and grew up in Miami Florida. I moved to California to study at Berkeley. Graduate school was completed at Stanford - MBA.

I'm new to the online dating scene and thinking it is more typing then meeting people. Anyway, I am better in person than I may appear here so keep that in mind should you get to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
Retired and working on independent projects. Most of them are geared towards helping people with disabilities. I spent my life working as an advocate. Currently, I am in transition and open to suggestions.
I’m really good at
Helping others and problem solving. For some reason I tend to inspire others. Perhaps this is my greatest strength.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books are on economic development theory, capitalist global expansion, the dynamic capacity of government, and other similar topics.

I love comedies and watch movies quite often.

My favorite music depends on my mood. Some days it's loud and exhilarating. While other days it is quiet and mellow (i.e. Sublime to Jim Croce to Paul Oakenfold to Old school blues, etc.) One recent addition to the musical favorites is Reggie Watts. That man is crazy.

My favorite food is a toss-up between Chinese, Japanese or Italian.
The six things I could never do without
patience, hope, faith in mankind, the love of good people, the satisfaction of good food, and my freedom. These are not in any particular order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to survive in a world gone mad.
On a typical Friday night I am
i CAN BE ANYWHERE DOING ANYTHING. I JUST NEVER KNOW
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Is totally out of control. You will have to ask me if you want to know.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you want to meet a genuine, loving, crazy fun person send me a letter.