I am eccentric, open minded, and comfortable.
My Self-Summary
Hello! First and foremost, I must get out there that I am
polyamorous. I am happily married to my best friend
iestyn and have a very strong,
healthy relationship with my boyfriend. My boyfriend has moved a
distance away so I don't get to see him as often as I'd like these
days but he is still very important to me. That being said, I may
be busy but I certainly have time to devote to another potential
relationship.
Apart from all of that, I am a Nurse. I specialize in Pediatric
Home care and really love my job. I have always viewed Nursing as a
calling that I finally answered, graduating from Nursing school in
2006. But I have been a Nurses Aide of some sort or another for
over ten years before that.
I also love animals and am owned by four nutty cats that keep me
laughing. They can drive me crazy but I wouldn't have it any other
way.
I have very close relationships with my friends, some of who have
become my family. My relationship with my blood family has been
tenuous at times as i tend to march to my own drummer. I refer to
myself as the tie dyed sheep in my family, a bit different from the
black sheep but not in step with the republican, Christian majority
of my family.
I feel very accepted by chosen family whereas I have not always
felt that from the blood family.
My husband has been Pagan since long before we met, whereas I have
always been some sort of Christian type, mainly UU. However, in the
last few months, I have realized my affiliations have changed and I
am now out of the closet and Pagan. I am fairly ecclectic in my
path at this time.
I tend to be a balance of introvert and extrovert, depending on my
mood and the vibe of the group I am interacting with. I am NOT
afraid to make the first move but like someone that might want to
too.
What I’m doing with my life
My life is filled with learning. I am always trying new things and
figuring out what works for me and what doesn't. I make a lot of
mistakes but I am not afraid to make those mistakes. I just try to
not keep making the same mistakes.
So I am pretty much floating through this life, learning and loving
as I can. Never say never. ;)
I’m really good at
I am really good at making small talk with strangers, out shopping,
at the gym, anywhere.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, it used to be the fact that I am pretty tall (5'10"") and
stacked. :)
Now it would appear (in warmer weather) that I am mainly stopped by
people so they can ask me about my tattoos. The 2 on my arms, 1 on
my chest, and 1 on my ankle are BEAUTIFUL and garner a lot of
attention. :)
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I'm a pizza fanatic! I have become very good at making pizza and
strombolis since my hubby bought me a bread machine. I love cooking
for friends and my stromboli is one of the most requested items for
me to make.
I love
goofy
comedies. I am self-proclaimed sap so I also love a good
romance (if it's done well).
I tend to read the backs of books and see if the story appeals to
me. I just finished Trilogy of Sleeping Beauty, written by Anne
Rice under the name of A.N. Roquelaure. They were page turners let
me tell you. I'm sorry to be done with them.
I have fairly eclectic musical tastes: Blackmore's Night, Mika, and
Mary Chapin Carpenter are in my car right now but I have a deep
love for 80s music (Hair bands and all).
The six things I could never do without
my husband, my cats, health, lovers and love, good food and drink,
and friends and loves to share it with :D
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about the future and the past. Where
am I going and how did I get where I am. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
On Fridays, my husband and I are usually hanging out watching TV
and eating pizza. Friday nights are usually our chill times as the
week is so busy. A time to relax before the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm afraid of the dark. No, really.
You should message me if
You truly want to get to know me and think we would be a good
match. If you are comfortable in your skin and with you are. If
Honesty is important to you. If you are willing to take things
slowly and see how things progress organically.