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fieldsofjoy

29 Rancho Santa Margarita, CA Cis Woman

Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 28
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Seeing Someone
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's get this out of the way right up front. I am bisexual, biromantic and polyamorous. Yay! I do believe that eventually I will end up with someone(s) for the long haul, but I haven't found them yet.

Now, onto me! My name is Joy and I am an open book.

I am an introvert, but I can be extroverted if I'm really comfortable in a situation (or really drunk). I adore extroverts and find that I tend to have the most fun with them. It can be emotionally exhausting for me though, as I tend to be fairly independent and kind of a lone wolf. I need time to recover after long social periods. That is usually when I curl up and binge watch netflix while catching naps with my dogs.

In my free time I like to binge watch science fiction, read comics, hang out with my dogs or be with friends. I also like to go to museums, theme parks, old movie theatres and other interesting places.

I'm always looking for the next big thing, I can't sit still for very long at all. I guess that's why I consider myself a jack of all trades. I never spend enough time with any one thing to be very good at it, but I tend to be pretty okay at whatever I try out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I am focused on getting my petsitting business off the ground and looking for a/some partner(s) in life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
>Being considerate of other's feelings
>Taking naps
>Being shy and not initiating contact
>Obsessing over nerdy things
>Doggy cuddling
>Dancing like nobody is watching
>Being awkward in social situations
>Making lists
>Being a goofball
>Researching anything & everything
>Baking! But I'm a terrible cook.
>Being obnoxiously on-time for everything ever
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am super tall? But I still wear heels! After that I'd like to think people notice how quirky I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Hunger Games Trilogy, Anything and everything Tolkien, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime, Memoirs of a Geisha, The Divergent Series, Fables (comics), Any Marvel Cosmicy Comics (Guardians of the Galaxy, Inhumans).

Movies: *takes a deep breath* All of the Marvel movies (it's a small obsession), Rocky Horror Picture Show, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, A Single Man, Synechdoche New York, Anything Wes Anderson, Some Woody Allen stuff, Anything Bill Murray, Empire Records, Our Idiot Brother, Donnie Darko, Serenity, Jurassic Park, Wall-E, 13 Going on 30, The Brothers Bloom, Closer, Everything is Illuminated, Josie & the Pussycats, So I Married an Axe Murderer, Adventures in Babysitting, Wicked etc etc

Shows: *takes another deep breath* Nashville, Defiance, Lost, Alias, Farscape, Babylon 5, Dr Who, Once Upon a Time, Agents of Shield, Parenthood, Friday Night LIghts, Avatar the Last Airbender, Archer, Battlestar Galactica, Fringe, Skins, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Sanctuary, Orange is the New Black, The L Word, Suits, Weeds, Game of Thrones, The United States of Tara, Girls, Shameless, Silicon Valley, Roswell, Veronica Mars, Pretty Little Liars, Lost Girl, Gilmore Girls, and like so many more, it's so sad.

Music: Say Anything, Silversun Pickups, Perma, Jack White, Fiona Apple, Coheed and Cambria, Muse, Eisley, Garbage, Bright Eyes, Bob Dylan, Nine Inch Nails, PJ Harvey, Infected Mushroom, The Used, AImee Mann, Metric, Snow Patrol, Spice Girls, Christina Aguilera, 12th Planet, Lyndard Skynard - it's so varied it's kind of insane.

Food: I have a small donut problem. God, I love donuts. Besides that I enjoy normal American food. I'm a meat and potatoes kind of girl. I don't really eat beef though. My diet consists mostly of chicken and fish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides my sister who is my best friend and my dogs who are my children....

1. Daytime naps. They are the actual best. Even better if I've somehow managed to fandangle someone into taking a nap WITH me.
2. Donuts. I told you I loved them.
3. The internet, it's where I live most of the time.
4. Art, it's my livelihood.
5. Storytelling & Worldbuilding, I love reading, watching, listening to stories.
6. Water, but like the kind you swim in and take a bath in. I love the feeling of being submerged.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... life. I tend to analyze people's actions/reactions and over-analyze my own. I also think a lot about robots and dinosaurs because they're super awesome.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Right now on most Friday nights I am working. If I have a free Friday night (or weekend night) I will try to spend it with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I think something is super hilarious, I totally have a snort-laugh.
You should message me if
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You have a profile that will make me laugh. I can't resist randomly funny people.

You are a healthy, happy couple looking for an equal third. I believe my ideal relationship formation is a triad.

I am not looking to date single men, sorry! It is very, very rare that I do. You can try, but I probably won't reply. I don't like wasting people's time.

I would consider dating a single woman, however. I just absolutely adore ladies.

Do not message me if all you are interested in is a sexual relationship.