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35 / F / Gay / Single

Arlington, Virginia

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am outspoken and passionate. I always wave at small children. I have been known to give directions to tourists and then ask them to pay it forward by standing on the right hand side of the escalator in the Metro.
What I’m doing with my life
By profession I'm an instruction and reference librarian, but I spend as much time at trapeze school as I possibly can. It makes me happy, and that's what matters to me right now. Other things that make me happy include spoken word open mics, poetry slams, playing the harpsichord, playing in a handbell choir where we don't always play the same parts, and crochet.
I’m really good at
*Thinking of five different ways to say the same thing. It's really helpful when I'm teaching or am at the reference desk and can help someone reframe their question.

*Being exuberantly articulate.

*Singing. Especially harmony, either written or improvised.
The first things people usually notice about me
I just took a mini poll and the consensus was that I'm talkative - in a good way. There was also insistance that I mention my "vibrant, fabulous" dresses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books-- A Curse Dark as Gold, The Island of Lost Maps: A True Tale of Cartographic Crime; Anne of Green Gables; The Client; Murder on the Orient Express
Movies--How to Train Your Dragon; Shawshank Redemption; Keeping the Faith; Love Actually; Fried Green Tomatoes; Kung Fu Panda, The Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls in Love
Music--Almost anything by Bach; classic rock; Indigo Girls; Dar Williams; Dixie Chicks; Klezmer; the soundtrack to Wicked
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking. It sounds odd, I know, but then so am I. :-p

The proper use of elipses...

The fact that I ever thought I was an introvert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an irrational fear of burning my tongue and an irrational fear of dropping my keys down a storm drain or elevator shaft.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating