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fierceflawless

31 F Toronto, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 31
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Often
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Latin (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Poorly), Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am polyamorous and have been living with father_ted for nine years. We are common-law, but our relationship is entirely open. I don't have a lot of free time to date these days, so casual hang-outs (with or without sex) are my modus operandi.

Science fiction enthusiast. Cat lover. Introvert who has learned to be extroverted. Maneater extraordinaire. Music connoisseur. Queer, fat femme. Homebody. Stoner.

I am a laid-back, go-with-the-flow kinda woman. I dig men and masculine of centre types who enjoy bdsm and a finely rolled joint. I have a soft spot for accents and tattoos. I want a partner who is smarter than I am--no joke, I used to masturbate to an ex-lover's academic writing.

Life goals: learn to pick locks, learn to roll a joint one-handed.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a B.A. in archaeology and classics, an Hons. B.A. in Women's Studies. I am currently in the Master's program in Gender, Feminist and Women's studies at York and was just accepted into the PhD program for September, 2014. My interests are in performance and sex work theory, feminist phenomenology, discourse analysis and theories of resistance.

I also work as an escort/paid companion/courtesan/call-girl/'ho. I dabbled in cam work, but didn't have any patience for it. As a result, I'm also highly active in the sex workers' rights movement. I realize putting this out there limits the dating possibilities--but quite frankly, I wouldn't want to date anyone who wasn't okay with my work. And before you ask, yes, I am a safer sex professional. I take care of my health and practice safe sex.

I also occasionally write articles--I've been published at RH Reality Check (www.rhrealitycheck.org), Capital Xtra!, and Rabble.ca
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
spelling, dancing poorly, fucking, rolling joints, and naming cats.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair? It's shaved on one side, but that's kind of a popular 'do these days--I continually flirt with the idea of submitting my picture to the Tumblr : http://girlsthatlooklikeskrillex.tumblr.com/
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS:

The Princess Bride by William Goldman


anything by Roald Dahl


One Hundred Years Of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez


The Day of the Triffids by John Wyndham


Meatcake by Dame Darcy


Ed the Happy Clown by Chester Brown


How Poetry Saved My Life: A Hustler's Memoir by Amber Dawn



Academic stuff: Michael Foucault, Judith Butler, Gayle Rubin, Shannon Bell, Kamala Kempadoo, Jo Doezema, Elizabeth Bernstein, Melissa Ditmore, Than-Dam Troung and Chris Bruckert.

Although somewhat unrelated to any of my research interests, I'm also fascinated by Georges Bataille and Jean Baudrillard.
I have a love-hate relationship with post-structuralism.

MOVIES:
I generally like my movies fucked-up, gorgeous, violent or some combination of all three. I love horror movies. I also enjoy a lot of 80's action films because they hold a special place in my childhood. And I'm a sucker for a good love story.

The Big Lebowski, Ghostbusters, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Dawn of the Dead, Shaun of the Dead, Army of Darkness, Oldboy, Audition, The Descent, Little Miss Sunshine, Terminator 2, Total Recall, The Royal Tenenbaums, Rushmore, Amelie, Harold and Maude, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Secretary, Planet Terror, The Addams Family, Dead Alive, Monster Squad, Memento, Hot Fuzz, Code 46, Fallen Angels, Antichrist, Thirst, Wet Hot American Summer, The Shining, Session 9, Drive, etc.



TELEVISION:
Twin Peaks, Monkey Dust, Spaced, The League of Gentleman, I'm Alan Partridge, Home Movies, Father Ted, Buffy, True Blood, The Wire, The Walking Dead, Bob's Burgers, Game of Thrones, American Horror Story, True Detective



MUSIC:
I will listen to just about anything once. I haven't met a genre of music I didn't like. So far, the only band I just can't get into is Black Dice. Noise, man, I just don't get it all the time.

I'm not good with genres, but I dig a lot of angry ladies, depressing men, crazy types who lock[ed] themselves in cabins, and dissonance. And hip-hop. I fucking love hip-hop.

PJ Harvey, Fiona Apple, Nina Simone, Feist, Pixies, Pavement, CocoRosie, Timber Timbre, Le Tigre, Kanye West, Fugees, Lauryn Hill, Jay Munly, Slim Cessna's Auto Club, Janis Joplin, Beirut, Julie Doiron, Captain Beefheart, Patti Smith, The Stooges, Heart, The Smiths, Yeah Yeah Yeah's, The Kills, Elliott Smith, Joy Division, The Cure, Depeche Mode, Radiohead, Neko Case, Regina Spektor, Dizzee Rascal, Kaki King, Lykke Li, Rasputina, Bonnie "Prince" Billy, El Perro Del Mar, Oh Susanna, Gillian Welch, Cat Power, Ratatat, Dolly Parton, Aesop Rock, Mary Timony, Portishead, Amy Winehouse , Black Mountain, Lightning Dust, Themselves, Cannibal Ox, Wu-Tang Clan, The Antlers, Bad Brains, Blonde Redhead, Xiu Xiu, Ray Charles, Albert Ayler, Yelawolf, Jonathon Richman/Modern Lovers, The Make-Up! Robert Wyatt etc.



FOOD: chocolate, asparagus, edamame and pickled eggplant. Those are just a few of my favourite things. I will actually eat just about anything. As long as there's no cilantro. That shit tastes like soap.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sleep.
my cat.
music.
condoms.
my partner.
my cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
stuff I should read; my thesis; what movie to watch; food I'd like to eat but won't go to the effort of making/getting; kinky sex
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
most likely doing one of the following:


*procrastinating


*hustling


*hanging out withfather_ted


*sleeping

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once got paid to make fart noises.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*you're intelligent, witty and love nerdy fat girls.
*you have queer/feminist/leftist politics
Older men preferred (5-10 years older is a good range, but I'm not averse to older)
optional: you appreciate a fine joint and are well-versed in BDSM as a dominant/top.