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44 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 35–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:16pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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conscious. kind. soulful. spiritual. transparent. warm. open. communicative. trustworthy. strong. vulnerable. emotionally self-sufficient. intelligent. affectionate. sensual. passionate. playful. philosophical. sarcastic. compassionate. humble. confident. dynamic. consistent. very discriminating.

i intend to be deeply met.. soul to soul.. in committed monogamous partnership.
What I’m doing with my life
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releasing fear.

getting clear.
I’m really good at
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caring for animals and the elderly.

seeing you and saying so.

expressing myself.

The first things people usually notice about me
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i am safe.

i am kind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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seth speaks
undefended love
open heart, open mind
hero with a thousand faces
the big book of alcoholics anonymous

the matrix
waking life
life in a day
the namesake
crazy stupid love

i don't watch any tv.
but my favorite show ever is still northern exposure.

i like all music from house to brazilian to country.
(i love country)

i am currently obsessed with this poignant and perfect artistic collaboration::

i don't eat anything from factory farms. nor do i use any products tested on animals. i also do not intentionally kill insects. i free them or let them be. mindfulness and compassion are essential components to eating and living for me.

i don't drink at all. i don't need you not to drink at all.. but if you drink a lot we won't be a match.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
direct eye contact.
alone time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether god has a plan for me or i'm creating my reality as i go, and if both can be true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making dinner and relaxing. taking a lot of baths in the winter.

i love to go dancing but its rare that i do - just don't know where the good music and good vibe are these days. help me out... :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i work at a grocery store.
You should message me if
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you know how to be present.
and your actions are rooted in integrity and good character.

you don't care that i work at a grocery store and don't have a lot of extra money. this doesn't mean i don't have interest in changing that. it means you are in total acceptance of my life as it is today. not only in acceptance of my life and of me but in celebration of me... as i will celebrate you. we will celebrate and uplift each other. hell yes we will.

and you're gay. > regardless of what you've identified as in the past, you know you want to be in a monogamous lifelong relationship with a woman. this doesn't mean i'm going to want to marry you after a few dates. i mean that ultimately your intention is to partner for life with a woman.