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fierygraymatter

25 / F / straight / Single

Nashville, Tennessee

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Ethnicity
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Poorly), Bengali (Poorly), Estonian (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly), Belarusan (Poorly)

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I am fiery, fervent, and fascinating.

My Self-Summary

Honestly, I love people. I am not one that says, "I don't like people, they're stupid." Sure, some people are smart, dumb, naive, cruel, fiery, ugly, attractive, emotionally unstable, calm, but these adjectives make the world a beautifully diverse and rich place.

I promise that I look like my pictures. Some people even tell me better in person, but I don't think my mom counts?

I regularly use http://dictionary.reference.com.

I just recently started getting out more. Although, I do not frequent any particular places because I like to be open to new experiences. I tend to be a solitary creature. I used to think I was not open to picking up someone in a bar-like atmosphere, but recently my company and enjoyment for life has increased by doing so.

In the south, I feel a bit like a needle in a haystack. If you don't live here then you need to in order to understand. If you do, then you probably don't understand at all. Can you understand my plight (I like that word...."plight")?

Important things to note about me:

-Deeply concerned with the progress of society
-Pescetarian
-Described as "Open-minded" whatever that means
-Well balanced....just like breakfast
-Straight forward....only when you give me the green light
-Routine exercise

Things I enjoy doing:

-Music....mostly listening but also dancing around the house with a hairbrush and pretending my voice is on key
-Going to Comedy Clubs...laughing is awesome
-Reading...hahahahah.....I READ
-Scuba Diving...look at the pretty fishes
-Travel...Bangkok
-Whitewater Rafting...I received college credit for this!
-Kayaking...canoeing is for two and I haven't found my partner....yet
-Spelunking...because we can't all live there forever
-Discussing Art...because I love perspective
-Photography...long live the digital camera and Photoshop...obviously no doctoring to the pictures of me :-P...I expect you will take me for what I am
-Watching Films...me watch movie
-Seeing Theater...me watch live movie :-)
-Trying New Foods...this is a talent anyone can master

What I’m doing with my life

I donate blood every eight weeks. Please, do the same!

I run a law office and I am figuring out everything else as I go along.

October is going to be a crazy month for me. The first week I am in Vegas and LA. Then, I come back for a week. The last two weeks I will be in Korea and November I will be in D.C. I know, I know you wonder how and why I am doing all this travel...Well, I need to see the world and there is no better opportunity than 25, single, and no children.

I’m really good at

Falling at inconvenient times and then jumping back up really quickly as though nothing ever happened. This makes people laugh. I guess I should just say making people laugh. Maybe the whole laughing with you and not at you situation applies here? Maybe not?

....and starting home renovation projects that get delayed.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am a multi-faceted woman. I have a lot of different dreams and always something I am working on. I am passionate about life and I really like to have people around me that feel the same.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

If you want to know just ask. I like to save this stuff for the getting-to-know-each-other portion of an evening out. Besides, if you are using this information to weed people out of your dating pool then we are probably not compatible anyway.

Meaning is very important to me. My favorites of anything usually come from an experience that deeply touched my life.

I listen to everything that has a good beat and usually lyrics are very important to me. If you only listen to country we are not a match.

The six things I could never do without

1) Toilet Paper
2) Soap
3) Fire
4) Cold Night (who can sleep in the heat)
5) Pillows (I realize this should count as one but you can never have just one!)
6) Panties (wait, this is more than one item too...oh well, at least you just pictured me in them)
7) Family ---Ha, I cheated...what are you going to do about it okcupid!?!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Ignorance....you figure it out. ;-)

Also, if people really see me as I am or if they see me as a culmination of the experiences they have had with people similar to me. I wonder if this is why I have a more difficult time swooning over someone new. Maybe, I connect their personality type to others I knew and this takes away the excitement of "newness," or perhaps....I am just a cynic because I yearn for a connection with another person that might not exist?....and yet I keep trying :-).

On a typical Friday night I am

If you have a typical Friday we are probably not going to be happy dating.

....I'm up for anything.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have no idea why people keep telling me that I am sarcastic.

I have a bookmark folder on my browser entitled "Tofu."

I am a curvy woman. If you cannot handle that, fuck off :-).

You should message me if

You read through my profile and would enjoy having a conversation with me. Also, if you think that great friends make for the best romantic relationships.