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figleaph

49 Seattle, WA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–54
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo
Education
Two-year college
Job
Construction
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Observant,humorous, willing to learn, loyal, creative crafty, easily entertained,competitive, hard working and passionate.
I am very good with my hands and tools. Very.
I believe that being a truly good person should be effortless.
I am excited to be on this search for the one I hope to grow young with. Who will the search end with? ...Well,..... You don't own a yellow humvee. I am sorry. It's not a car, it's a billboard. With this as a rare exception,I am truly not a judgemental person. So if you fall under that category, we probably don't jive.
I wish all shoes were as comfortable as broken in rental bowling shoes.
I am quite comfortable in my own shoes and have very little to hide.
Go ahead take top, I will carry, but I will retain my masculinity, dignity and respect.
No exceptions. Just definitions. Read again... Digest....
I am far from old fashioned.
Just simply looking for a chum/mate(You know,the needle in the haystack) to explore the future with.
Am I the only person here that finds the questions to be far more telling than our self descriptions?
If I call you a bug, I mean it in a good way.............Just so you know.
I often recognize couples that are truly meant for each other. I gives me a sense of hope,... and frustration......You?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The right thing, most of the time. I hope.
Learning things about myself that surprise me.
Being the calm in the middle of chaos. Especially on jobsites.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing soccer.
Playing guitars and making them as well.
Admittting it when I over-experiment with a recipe.
Starting over with a new outlook.
Preventing disasters on jobsites.
Fixing disasters that other people didn't prevent.
Making mochas in the morning, or whatever you might like.
Seeing the best best in people.
Committing to what I do or who I am with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ability to laugh.
"My ability to blurt out rather useful and pertinent statements that apply to previous conversations." says one friend.
" Somtimes days later." added by another.
"Perfect" ......yet another.............And.........
That I no longer have friends................Deutch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A Prayer for Owen Meany, Illusions, Dr. Seuss.
Monty python and the holy grail, The Life of Brian, Best in show, The Fifth Element, The Princess Bride. Not all that big on T.V. these days.
As far as music goes I like alternative 90s & 80s, classic rock.
I dislike anything that has autotune in it, or anything that loops a part of a song that was created by someone else.
Italian, mexican,chinese,thai,sushi,barbecue,ice cream, butterfingers all crushed up in ice cream,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Patience (what little is left).
Friends and family.
Toilet Paper.
Honesty.
The humor I got from my british mum & dad.
Hope mixed with determination.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Respect. Respect. Respect. And it's beauty.
What scale to use on a twelve string electric.
You. Wherever you are. Whovever you are.
Have we yet to meet? or do I know you? hmmm.
Where to find a pair of rental bowling shoes.
One f-hole or two? (Found in several acoustic instruments for those of you with your mind in the gutter)
The fact that in a short time (or long), I will be adored by someone that I adore.
I want to do for, more than have done for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends or my now grown up kids.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ok,here goes. This is EXTREMELY diificult for me to do. I lied about it when confronted and you will soon see why. When I was a young child, I think I was 5 or 6 yrs old. My mother, one evening, took me to a neighbors house to be watched while she and my dad went to see a man about a horse for a couple of hours. The neighbors had a swing set and a playhouse in the backyard as well as a vegatable garden. Tomatos,peas.strawberries,lettuce,potatoes,you name it. They ate fresh. They had a sliding glass door that separated the backyard from the dining room that they were eating dinner in while I played alone in the backyard. My mom had already fed me me before she took me up to the neighbors to be watched. I am not sure what she fed me, but the closest thing that I can compare it to as an adult would be a cup of coffe and a bran muffin. I wasn't comfortable enough to ask them where the bathroom was. For some reason I felt like I had only two choices. The Playhouse, or the vegatable garden. After an hour or so of very short stepped pacing I chose the vegatable garden. The tomatos had enough foliage to to hide me as I was no longer standing. Who would do that while standing?!! Unless you wanted to get caught. They never volunteered to watch me again. My mom never figured out why those people never spoke to her. Ever. .........Boy do I ever feel better!! The weight has lifted from my chest after all these years. I am hoping to find a companion on a dating site that just got me to admit that I pooped in someones vegatable garden. This is not going well.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have any curiosities or questions.
You are not the neighbors that watched me when I was 5 or 6 yrs old.
You are comfortable in your shoes.
You are strong and confident enough to.
You somewhat know what you want, or what you are looking for.
I care about who you are, Not what you are. Just a wee little hint.
You are still interested.