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45 • Munich, Germany • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–50
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 3:22am
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- When drinking
- Atheism, but not too serious about it
- Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly), Ancient Greek (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
To be fair, I should tell you some of the bad stuff too. Although I'm outwardly gregarious and social, it can cost me some effort because I'm still shy on the inside. By the same token, although I'm open and honest with people from the start, and tend to trust strangers in everyday ways, it can take me some time to truly come to trust someone in intimate ways. I sometimes lack self-discipline, and can be an absent-minded dreamer, known to walk into telephone poles while lost in thought (no joke). When I get involved in a piece of work, I can become consumed by it to the exclusion of everything else. Other times I have to fight my laziness. I can be too much of a scientist at times, focusing on cold analysis and dry problem-solving instead of on comprehension and understanding.
Oh, I should also say that I just moved to München a few months ago, and I'm learning to speak German, but I still don't speak very well. Perhaps you can help me to learn!
"The affairs of human beings are not worthy of great seriousness; and yet we must take them seriously." -- Plato, Laws
Unless I haven't cut my hair in a while, and then it's probably the big curly mop on top of my head.
I laugh *a lot*. That gets commented on frequently. It's usually just because I'm in a good mood, not laughing at anything in particular.
Just like with books, I love all kinds of movies, from the old classics of Hollywood to the great Russian, Italian and French films to big, loud, dumb action blockbusters. Some of my favorites: 8 1/2; Chaplin's The Kid and City Lights; Tarkovsky's The Mirror; Fanny and Alexander; Casablanca; Mon Oncle; Céline and Julie Vont en Bateau; Groundhog Day; Annie Hall; The Jerk; Caddyshack; Apocalypse Now; Young Frankenstein; The Avengers; anything with Katherine Hepburn, Cary Grant, Jimmy Stewart, Humphrey Bogart, Barbara Stanwyck, Veronica Lake, Gary Cooper, Ingrid Bergman, Clark Gable...
Hmm, this may start to get repetitive, but, again, in music I really do like pretty much everything, classical, jazz, folk and old country, Latin, African, classic rock, house, trance, rap, grunge, speed metal, hardcore, bluegrass... Some of my absolute favorites are: Schubert; Beethoven; Chopin; Andres Segovia; Louis Armstrong; Thelonius Monk; John Coltrane; Duke Ellington; Charles Mingus; Patsy Cline; Johnny Cash; Elvis Presley; Joao Gilberto; Mahotella Queens; The Velvet Underground; The Beatles; Bob Dylan; Jimi Hendrix; Otis Redding; James Brown; The Doors; Cream; Buffalo Springfield; Pink Floyd; The Rolling Stones; Iggy Pop (and the Stooges); Bruce Springsteen; Squirrel Bait; Government Issue; The Clash; Minor Threat; Fugazi; Dinosaur, Jr.; The Flaming Lips; The Dead Kennedys; The Sugar Hill Gang; NWA; The Beastie Boys; Belle and Sebastian; The Pastels; Radiohead; Portishead; Ralph Stanley and the Clinch Mountain Boys; Tom Waits; Sam Cooke; Edith Piaf...
TV: I don't watch a lot of TV, but I must confess that I adore Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Firefly; I also am a sucker for Friends (a dirty secret) and Battlestar Galactica; Doctor Who rocks, old and new, and I'm really enjoying Arrow and Hannibal currently---so I guess it's clear I like a lot of fantasy and escapism in my TV; The Americans is staggeringly good; and, as I recently discovered, 30 Rock is a magnificent son of a bitch---hmm, maybe I watch more TV than I think...
food: peaches; lobster (crab, too); stinky cheese; bouillabaisse; grilled t-bone steak; fresh pesto; peanut butter; sushi; arugala (rocket, for you Brits); painfully spicy Chinese, Indian and Thai food; ridiculously rich French and Italian food; perfectly scrambled eggs; roast duck; blueberries; raw oysters; fried oyster po-boys; lamb chops; pan-fried rice noodles; stir-fried pea sprouts; real barbecue
And, though they didn't ask, my favorite visual art and artists, because I love that stuff: all ancient Greek sculpture, statuary, pottery and grave monuments; Fra Angelico; Piero della Francesca; Tintoretto; Caravaggio; Velazquez; Rubens; Brueghel the Elder; Cranach the Elder; Bosch; Titian; Rodin; Odilon Redon; Cezanne; Matisse; Dali; Francis Bacon; Giacomo Manzu; Marino Marini; Alexander Calder; Eadweard Muybridge; Garry Winogrand; Lee Friedlander; Robert Adams
4. red wine
6. sex (and physical contact in general, like cuddling)
7. things I don't understand but feel as though I could, if I tried hard enough and thought long enough
you can tell me things I wouldn't have thought of on my own
you have a healthy sexual appetite, and can freely and unabashedly appreciate your own body and that of your lover
you have a rich inner life that you like to share more than you like to obsess about
you're the best kisser in the world, or you love kissing and you want to get a lot of practice in to perfect the art
oh, also if this makes you feel like the happiest thing under the sun: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1LUXQWzCno (and especially if you ever find yourself dancing like that when out with friends)
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