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fillyjen

46 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:28am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It hasn’t been easy to write a summary about myself even though I write for a living. When it comes to talking about myself in a real way, I become shy. I’m a mass of contradictions, but somehow it all makes sense. I am shy but yet am a great hostess who engages everyone at a party. I write a snarky blog but I have a soft squishy side that also writes about prairie skills and heartfelt topics. I love amazing meals but I love mac 'n' cheese far too much to call myself a foodie. I'm a good Midwestern girl but I fancy myself a city slicker. I love, love, love the smell of the great outdoors (is anything better than the smell of wet pine during a hike?) but love my creature comforts (hello, bathtub!). But here's the thing: I have a great heart, I take care of myself and love my life, and I'm working on myself in ways both scary and empowering. And I'd love to tell you all about this when we get together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m learning to enjoy life, breathe, and be kind to myself and others as much as possible. I’m also writing books and blogs and articles that blow my skirt up. I’m really fortunate to write about stuff I like (i.e. I don’t do any technical writing) and lucky for me, I keep finding new interests I dig.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation
Making things
Multi-tasking
Obsessing
Writing
Laughing
Parallel parking
Accessorizing
Thinking outside the box
Figuring out gratuities and discounts in my head
Taking great photos in a photo booth
Asking great questions
Packing a suitcase
Noticing the details
Finding or making the perfect gift
Empathizing
Kissing
Brainstorming
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My look of intelligence (let's be honest, the glasses help). And I love meeting people and have an easy, curious manner with anyone I come into contact with, and I think that comes across as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Where to start? Well, I love things both high- and low-brow. Some literary favorites include The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, anything by Malcolm Gladwell, Rob Sheffield, Chuck Klosterman, Erik Larson, and Miss Jane Austen, Rules of Civility, PD James mysteries, literary nonfiction, Just My Type, Atonement, The Shadow of the Wind, The Hunger Games trilogy and the Harry Potter saga (kid lit is terrific these days).

Movies: Moonrise Kingdom, The Usual Suspects, Die Hard, Sunset Boulevard, Midnight in Paris, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane?, Shadow of a Doubt, Working Girl, Grosse Pointe Blank, Better Off Dead.

Music: I love me some Ryan Adams, Neko Case, Joni Mitchell, Bon Jovi, Lyle Lovett, The Decemberists, Hall & Oates, Fitz and the Tantrums, Adele.

Shows: The Newsroom, Sherlock (I'm mad for Martin Freeman), Girls, Mad Men, most things on Bravo (I own my cheese), Scandal, The Daily Show, Late Night with Jimmy Fallon, The Colbert Report. I have a lot of series queued up on Netflix.

Food: Pulled pork from Bitterroot, fish and chips from Toby's Tavern, crack chicken from Buddha Ruska, sushi from Mashiko, Mexican from the food truck by Mud Bay, Whidbey Island pies, migas from Portage Bay Cafe, ramen from Momofuku Noodle Bar (swoon).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Humor
Friends
Conversation
Curiosity
Books
Gumption
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Little stuff that doesn’t matter. I've been working on stilling my mind, as I have a tendency toward obsessive thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with a quality person or maybe cleaning my home and writing. I love waking up to a clean crib on a Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Do we actually think by asking this question that we’re going to get a genuine answer? For me, the most private thing I will admit has to have a trusting person with whom to share it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a life partner, a helpmate, a lover, if you are excited by change and self-discovery (in yourself or others), if you like to laugh and feel connected, if you want to be able to talk about anything under the sun.