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52 M Alexandria, VA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 31–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:25pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I think that those closest to me would describe me as: caring, sensitive, affectionate, passionate, expressive, optimistic, and someone who loves to laugh and make others laugh. Looking for guys who are the same. Are we a match.... ?

I'm also definitely relationship oriented (I've been partnered most of my adult life). Having said that, I'm open to all levels of connection with good guys -- including friendship.

Passionate about film, theater, music, the performing arts. Very family oriented. I love kids and I'm open to meeting a guy who's a parent, but this is not a deal breaker either way. Love going out, but cuddling up & watching a DVD at home can be just as great.

My ideal match is someone who: is not afraid to show affection; loves to kiss and cuddle; who's sensitive to the needs and feelings of others and behaves accordingly; is not afraid of honesty and communication; is emotionally available and romantic; who loves old movies and independent films; is family oriented; who understands that relationships have their ups and downs, and won't "cut and run" once the first blip appears on the radar screen.

Having said that, I don't go walking around with a "laundry list" of qualities that I check off when I meet someone. I think the most important commonality between two people is a shared sense of values. I also recognize that nobody's perfect - and that ultimately we grow to care about others despite our flaws and imperfections; after all, they are part of our humanity.

I also believe in always treating myself & others with respect, and am only interested in guys who feel the same. This means if you’re self-absorbed, take drugs not prescribed by a physician, or practice unsafe sex, we are not a match.

If you think we might have a connection, please drop me a line and let’s chat. Looking forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been working in film/video post-production for 25 years, and I'm currrently working for a TV station in the DC area. I'm also a writer and am passionate about film & filmmaking. I also enjoy volunteer work and keeping in shape.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Being a supportive friend. Parallel parking. Massage (so I'm told). Finding the humor in almost any situation. Remaining optimistic and upbeat.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my favorite alll time books (recent and classics): A Separate Peace, The Grapes of Wrath, The Namesake, Tuesdays with Morrie (must reading). Movies (too many to list): Hitchcock's Vertigo, Wilder's The Apartment, The Red Balloon, Annie Hall, Ed Wood, Parting Glances, The Times of Harvey Milk. Love many types of music: Classic Rock, Great American Songbook, Classical, Broadway.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cuddling and affection. The love and support of family and friends. Dunkin Donuts coffee. (And I admit, would be hard-pressed to give up my laptop and an internet connection).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how I can be a better person - and do more work that positively impacts others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends. Sometimes the gym, sometimes dinner & a movie. Sometimes Friday night services. Sometimes relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be too modest for my own good.