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44 / F / Straight / Single

Raleigh, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
May 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a independent woman who enjoys laughing and having fun. Getting out and enjoying life is important to me. I love to go out dancing with my friends, see live bands at both small and large venues. Travel and sight seeing is something that I feel I will never experience enough of. This world is big and I feel learning about other cultures is what helps us become better people. I Enjoy nature going on a hike or ride a bike is something I always enjoy even Roller Skating well nix the Roller Skating. Enjoy both the arts and sports, but only when seeing it live.

Most people notice my sense of humor, which is on the dry and sarcastic side. If I try to tell a joke it will fall flat in a heartbeat. My humor does not translate on a silly computer. I'm a bit bawdy but will tell you I don't get it. One must act like a lady, Right? On that note...I semi cuss like a sailor and try to work on reducing that every day.

I recently had someone tell me they are looking for something magical. That is a little out of reality for me, life is not easy and a fairy tale does not exist. I do believe chemistry is something that is a must but one needs to always remember that once the ingredients are mixed then it can take time to cook.

Like most women, I work hard at staying fit and healthy but the skinny gene does not exist in my family. I love my curves. Discovered Crossfit a few years ago and love it. If your not sure what a Burpee is YouTube it then do fifty.

Getting out and enjoying life is important to me. I don't mind staying at home and cleaning but if I can, I will drop whatever I'm doing to get out and meet with friends and enjoy a lunch. That dust bunny will be there when I get back.

I copied this from another profile but find it rings very true for many woman. If you are not interested in me then think of this with one you are interested in.

"What do I look for in a man? I want someone who is good at being themselves. I want a man who isn't too afraid or too lazy to stand up and be a man. I'm a traditional woman at heart. Open doors, hold my hand, take charge. If you want me, come get me. If you want to kiss me, then for crying out loud grab me and kiss me....and maybe even pull my hair a little if the spirit moves you. I want a man who can make me feel like a woman. Not sure what I mean by that? Then you're probably not the one for me. Don't be confused though, I stand on my own two feet and take care of myself quite nicely thankyouverymuch. I have a good job and a comfortable life. I don't need a man to take care of my business, I need a man to take care of me. (And if you think that's just about sex, move on.) A strong woman is not always a hard woman."
What I’m doing with my life
Doing what hopefully you are doing. Gainfully employed and having fun enjoying life.
The first things people usually notice about me
At first glance my smile and eyes are what I typically hear. But when you get to know me then you will see that it is my humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Have a variety of taste. SciFi, action, comedy and Dramas are my favorite....Not a fan of the Chick Flick. Secret fan of reality TV and I love how Jimmy Kimmel makes me laugh.

Listen to 95.3 That is me.

Love music from the 70's, 80's, 90's and best of the new century. Which would include Led Zep, Floyd, Ramones, Blonde, 80's hair bands, The Cure, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, U2, Ska, Bob Marley, love love No Doubt, Sublime, 311, STP, Tool, anything pop, Muse, The Killers, Kings of Leon... the list is endless.

I really hate Tomatoes.
The six things I could never do without
My Family. They are my support system

My Girlfriends. Extended family :)

My cats. I love them, they are my babies. But not crazy enough to take them to the store like some people and I only have two.

My Car. Hard to get around Raleigh without one.

My Sonicare toothbrush. Best invention in oral care in the last 10 years.

Working on the last one..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
contemplating the Meaning Of Life everyday.

Wondering why someone would consider roleplaying out a rape fantasy even when asked to.

Why so many men don't like Horror movies......man up.
On a typical Friday night I am
at the gym then home. I work on Saturdays :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to get to know me, and you have a picture.
Communication is very important to me. Good communication is the key to any successful relationship, be it just a friend or something that is more serious. I will not respond to someone who feels they have to hide. Please do not contact me if you are just looking for a booty call. Come on guys, really? You can go to Craigslist for that.