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findemotion

21 / F / bisexual / Married

San Antonio, Texas

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am lost, confused, and playing.

My Self-Summary

Here's what I've learned. Most of the propaganda people put in their profile are traits that they're *hoping* they possess, more than the truth of who they are. This is me being as honest as I can with you: The first time you meet me you'll probably think I'm pretty boring. It takes me awhile to feel comfortable enough around someone to give them my crazy, spontaneous personality. I love to giggle and to allow myself to be youthful (not childish, youthful). I have the strangest sleep schedule, mostly because I don't have too many responsibilities at the moment. The best time to talk to me will be at about 2 in the morning. I'm usually pretty talkative at that point, either from sleep deprivation or from lack of friends to bug. I call myself open minded, but not in the sense that I'm willing to do or say anything (I have my boundaries). I'm one of those people who loves to please. It means I'll work hard to make sure that I'm not playing games with you and that you're coming first. I listen to people's feelings and try harder than I should sometimes to make sure that I'm not stepping on your toes. I love to have intellectual conversations but also absolutely ridiculous ones. I try to be witty but I can also have some very "dumb blonde" moments. If I stop talking to you for a while, it usually means something you've said has got me thinking. I get distracted a lot by my own thoughts. It leads me to insomnia all too often.

The first things people usually notice about me

I giggle a lot especially when I'm happy & I get really quiet when I'm nervous. Pretty much, I wear my heart on my sleeve. My emotions are often read easily by those around me but at least I'm willing to recognize and deal with your emotions too.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I can't stand people who won't take the time to sit down and read an amazing book. Writing often inspires me to get up and do something; I live for page turners that inspire me into action. This includes Life of Pi & Kite Runner & Catch 22.


As that follows, I'm into quotable movies. Movies where a character says something so immensely perfect that you have to repeat it in your head a few times just to make sure you heard it right. You know what I mean if you've seen Fight Club or Life as a House or American Beauty. (That doesn't mean I'll remember any of them if you ask me to quote it, mind you. I have a horrible memory. It does mean that I can tell you how it's inspired me.)


My thoughts on music are so muddled right now, I couldn't even tell you who I enjoy listening to. I've been listening to 91.7 (NPR) and avoiding music mostly, to be honest. I do enjoy a lot of different bands including Muse, Stars, Death Cab for Cutie, Dresden Dolls, Sigur Ros, etc.etc. Introduce me to an original band and you'll be my new friend.

The six things I could never do without

I'm a really big cuddle whore. I admit it, that's all I want to do. But don't worry - I won't be clingy. The best way to get to know someone is to set aside all the distractions and to sit close to each other, even if no one is talking. Can you tell that I tend to be a hopeless romantic?


I love to sleep so I drink caffeine way more than I should. I could never do without my bed. It's where all of my favorite activities happen. ^_~


Trust is a huge issue for me. I have to feel like you aren't going to judge me or else you'll never get to see who I truly am. We won't be able to form a relationship, platonic or otherwise, unless you're willing to give me the truth. A little bit of humility is always nice too.


Any place that's open 24 hours has character brimming from it. I love to spend my time watching people interact and staying up late into the night. Hey, that's what us insomniacs do, right? Without my internet to keep me amused and other late nighters to talk to, I'd probably spend even more of my time chatting with the regulars at these cozy places. For Michiganders: Think Java Hutt and you'll know what I mean. If you've ever been there you are required to send me a message. They fixed the broken door! [edit] I'm keeping this in here for memories sake, but I can't believe they closed the place. I used to love it, even with all it's eccentricities.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

pri�vate[ (pri'vit): adj
- Secluded from the sight, presence, or intrusion of others
- Of or confined to the individual; personal
- Belonging to a particular person or persons, as opposed to the public or the government

Mmmhmm.