My divorce finalizes in September. I have two babies whom I love
dearly, and I'm fighting with a narrow sighted ferocity to bring
them home to me. I'm looking for someone, i don't know yet who. I
believe firmly in commitment and compromise. I feel a relationship
is built on equal effort, compassion, and understanding. My ideal
s/o should be my best friend, first. I'm a dork and a raging nerd.
I don't drink or get high and I don't go out to clubs or bars. I'm
a goal setter.
I have ptsd, I live with it very well. Suffice it to say I have
made my mind right on this matter. I understand that I have
limitations, i know what they are, and I know how to control myself
in those situations. Most importantly; I avoid circumstances that
aggregate it. Large crowds, loud and dark places (both together),
and aggressive personalities.
Do not contact me if you enjoy drama, violence, you are
argumentative, aggressive; or if your preferred pastimes involve
bars, clubs, concerts, or parties.
And above all;
Save your drama for your mama, I don't want it,
What I’m doing with my life
Working 50 plus, planning my future around my children, otherwise;
I'm pretty boring.
I’m really good at
Being a dad. Fixing stuff, repurposing materials, and
re-engineering things. Setting goals. Achieving goals.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm very down to earth, I take my priorities very seriously, my
I can be high strung, depending on social and environmental
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Technical data sheets, they make my life so much easier. I love to
learn, and I absorb survivalist topics. Movies are typically sci-fi
I listen to NPR.
The six things I could never do without
My babies, food, water, air, hunting season, work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
At home relaxing or working around the house or on a car.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
What ever happened to tact?
You should message me if
You're down to earth, not self centered, not a drama queen, are
reasonably intelligent, patient, and you know what it means to be