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finitethrills

30 / M / bisexual / Available

Winston-Salem, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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I am wicked smart, intensely wicked, and the coolest cat.

My Self-Summary

I'm into all sorts of things... poetry, sculpting, theatre, BDSM (I'm a switch with dominant tendencies). I like toys, I like video games from Bioshock to Viva Pinata. I am currently a baker, going into real estate. I am spiritual, but not religious, regardless of what OKC says. I love to have discussions ABOUT religion, though. I love words, language, and libraries, they make me hot. I love music, from Beethoven to KMFDM. I'm deeper than it probably looks like at first glance, laid back and chill. I'm so chill you could store a side of beef in me. (Points if you get the Hitchhiker's reference. I love film, and the dramatic arts in general. I have a thing for farces. Maybe they remind me of life? Metaphysics interests me. I am a cesspool of useless knowledge. I find it funny that one of those tests score me as japanese jujutsu, because I studied it for a number of years. My god, someone made a test that actually measured real things! Woo! I'm also a sculptor, and I am currently addicted to making masks. I love talking about and examining religion, even though I don't participate. I once wrote a paper on how Christianity was like a mental virus, complete with correlation to the black plague. It was not intended to be a slam on it, even, just examining the spread and effects thereof. The smell of books turns me on. Really, I love any interesting discussion about pretty much anything, as long as you're willing to debate and not just argue.

What I’m doing with my life

Planning on how to decorate my bedroom in steampunk style. Trying to find my happy.

I’m really good at

Baking... bad poetry, sculpting, procrastinating on my artistictalents to play video games instead, acting the pimp, reading quickly... threatening my friends with dismemberment or even death. Being a dork. Being open minded and mostly free from common social constraints. Kink , Kinkiness, being kinky. Floggers, fun. Being a walking spellchecker and thesaurus. Reading (yes, again).

The first things people usually notice about me

The crazy hair.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Neil Gaiman, Hitchhiker's Guide, Terry Pratchett, Heinlein, Harry Potter, All good movies, and especially anything Burton or Johnny Depp (rawr!),Most music. I love a very specific amount of the classics in all those categories (such as T.S. Elliot, Dante, Milton; Everything Hitchcock and old mob movies, campy horror films; and Beethoven). I like spicy foods, italian, and lobsters, the great bug scourge of the open sea. Sushi.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

On a typical Friday night I am

At work, actually. Or playing with my girlfriend, green17fairy97

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Hah. Anything at all, I have no shame. If you ask me something ridiculously personal and/or biological... you will receive and answer. You were warned.

You should message me if

You bloody feel like it. You're ok with kinkiness and polyness. You like the arts. You like having conversations with actual depth. You like going to cons. You like playing dressup. You like being dominated. You like having your picture taken in deliciously tantalizing outfits.