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26 Simi Valley, CA Genderqueer


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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In case you haven't noticed I'm a ginger. I just found out a few years ago myself. I'm a gender nihilist. Ask me about it sometime. I like hardcore, punk, post punk, and indie rock. Southern Californian native. I have the most beautiful hair you've ever seen. I probably think you're super cool.
What I’m doing with my life
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Drinking an absurd amount of coffee. Mixing live bands and recording EPs for shitty punk bands. I play drums in a hardcore/death rock/goth rock band and guitar/vocals in an indie rock/grunge band. I collect Disney Princess coffee mugs. I'm pretty much Ariel from the Little Mermaid.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking cool as shit while smoking a cigarette. I'll also school you in Soul Calibur.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Usually it's the fact that I'm a 6' 5" ginger with long hair. It's pretty easy to see. Or my Black Flag tattoo on my arm. My guess is it's the former though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shakespeare, Tennessee Williams, Jim Carroll, Richard Hell, Bukowski, Neil Gaiman, Henrick Ibsen, John Cooper Clarke, Stephen King, Legs McNeil, Stephen Blush

My all time favorite filmmaker is John Carpenter. I love everything he does including the few movies of his I hate and I have a They Live tattoo. Big Trouble in Little China is my all time favorite movie. I also like Robert Rodriguez, Fritz Lang, John Waters, Guillermo del Toro, Darren Aronofsky, Rodger Corman, Judd Apatow, Spike Jonze, Ridley Scott, and mostly weird Sci-Fi people. And Star Wars.

Jeff Rosenstock/Bomb the Music Industry, Against Me, Black Flag, Sleep, Tom Waits, Andrew Jackson Jihad, Rikk Agnew, Joyce Manor, Graf Orlock, Replacements, Television Personalities, Sonic Youth, Pavement, Neutral Milk Hotel, Electric Wizard, Big Star, My Bloody Valentine, Teenage Fanclub, Billy Bragg, Damned, Television, Velvet Underground, Bruce Springsteen.

Lost, Parks and Rec, Battlestar Galactica, any Star Trek, Simpsons, Over the Garden Wall, Twin Peaks, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, the Los Angeles Clippers, my vinyl record collection, Camel Blue 99s/a lighter, caffeine, and the song "This Is How We Do It" by Montel Jordan
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The verse in the song Rapper's Delight where the guy babbles on about the time he went to dinner at his friend's house and the food was terrible. I love the jam but the song losses all steam at that point. I mean, the song is like almost fifteen minutes long you could lose that verse and the song still fucking rules.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Good possibility of going to a show. If not, usually talking to people on a porch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I paid 50 bucks for a first edition copy of the self-titled Ramones record. I regret nothing.
You should message me if
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You wanna hang out and talk about art or debate the points of renaissance or decline of music scenes throughout history. Or if you want me to make you a mixtape. I don't mean to brag but I make a damn fine mixtape.