Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I no longer frequent the places relationships frequently happen.
Except the internet. This appears to be where the things that
I am in a fabulous long term relationship. Our relationship is
open. Polyamory is something we explore and a relationship style I
played with before. I live in Victoria and travel to Vancouver
I know the perfunctory lists of attributes, hobbies and visual
indicators do not magical compatibility make, but we’ve got to
I am many of the following things:
Spiritual, well traveled, funny, mystical, musical, yoga doer,
hiker n' biker, educated, witch, artist, good cook, avid reader,
nature lover, self employed, down to earth, redheaded thinker, sex
positive and a wee bit kinky. I like to get out of doors every
weekend, love being in this beautiful part of the world.
These lists are often more what we wished we did with ourselves
that what we actually do, no? I guarantee that I have at least once
been or done all these things and then some. I may also spend too
much time on my computer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for clients and students, healing, hanging out with cats,
seeking interesting media, getting out of doors, exploring
metaphysics, and making pretty things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Something New
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What exists beyond the mundane. Who exists.
Responsibility. Procrastination. Self improvement. Balance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, cooking, watching a show, hanging with my partner,
sometimes going out with friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like feisty redheads and you want a comrade for irreverent
You are happy with open relationships, polyamoury or at least
You seek a heart connection with room to grow.
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.