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42 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:57am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
My self-summary
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Times are changing! I no longer frequent the places relationships frequently happen. Except the internet. This appears to be where the things that happen, happen.

I know the perfunctory lists of attributes, hobbies and visual indicators do not magical compatibility make, but we’ve got to start somewhere.

I am many of the following things:

Spiritual, well traveled, polyamourous, mystical, musical, tarot enthusiast, hiker, educated, witch, artist, good cook, avid reader, nature lover, self employed, down to earth, redheaded thinker, sex positive. I like to get out of doors every weekend and love being in this stunning part of the world.

The spiritual side of things is somewhat important to me. I don't require any spiritual designation in a partner, but open mindedness is a plus, curiosity is a double plus.

I've done some travelling in the past and would love to get out there again, see some new lands. Maybe Costa Rica, India, The Maritimes, Alaska, New York, Thailand.....
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, making art, singing, hanging out with my noisy cat, seeking interesting media, getting out of doors, playing boardgames, exploring metaphysics, heading out of town to a Gulf Island or visit family and making messes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding this question.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love podcasts, documentaries when I'm feeling motivated, movies if I can find something decent enough to go and the new golden age of tv when I want to dig in. Strategy boardgames with friends are also a favourite pastime. Guilty pleasure - cat videos.

In general I'm a fan of good sci fi, fantasy, dark comedy, deep drama and high production values all round. Some current favourites: Games of Thrones, Walking Dead, House of Cards, Louie, Breaking Bad, The Wire, Last Week Tonight, Sherlock, Silicon Valley.

Music depends on the mood. Indie, Folk, World, Electronica, etc. I love live music and festivals where one can dance.

As to food I enjoy finding new restaurants and trying new things.
I love asian food, comfort pub food, fusion west coast style, healthy eating and a bit of fanciness from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Something New on the Horizon
2. Forests, Oceans, Lakes, Rivers...
3. Art and Beauty
4. Love and Snuggles
5. Community
6. Hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Responsibility. Procrastination. Self improvement. Balance.

And sometimes post apocalyptic survival strategies, just for fun. They miss such obvious resources in the tv shows of this genre. It drives me mad. :)
You should message me if
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You like feisty redheads and you want a comrade for irreverent mirth.