However I'm Dave and I like to think that "a gentleman" is not a dead concept and being genuine is the best possible thing you can be.
I've just had a conversation with a lovely lady and she felt she had to disable her profile because of "other dodgy messages" coming through from other users.
Seriously gutted. Its hard enough to find someone you could click with, let alone have the idiots spoil it for the rest of us.
If you feel you want to message me and give me a chance; I'm looking for a potential serious relationship.
I'm not going to say "Hey baby! fancy a little fun!", Immature and highly degrading.
As I said above "a gentleman" is not a dead concept and if you message me I'll uphold that in treating you with the greatest respect in any reply or icebreaker that's sent.