The best way to reach me is celia@thecspc.org DON'T MESSAGE ME HERE. I will answer all slightly (or more) thought out messages.

I'm KINKY. I love couples....any gender! And people who switch! I'd love to have a long term serious thing. It's spring, so everything is blooming. Some chances to just play with folks I find hot are awesome. **no bareback**

I've been in Seattle about seven years now with my Dear Husband and our 2 munchkins, 16 and 18.Hubby has a primary and they have a baby. I'm very busy with the Center for Sex Positive Culture, where I run events occasionally, including Myself! ~ the masturbation friendly sex party. Their site is thecspc.org

I teach Vulvic Explorations and help teach Clitoral revelations. visit ladywildfire.com I manage Aphrodite temples and work in retail.

I'm looking for a "Yes, you can!" kind of partner who isn't afraid to tell everything straight-up and still manages to be an encouraging force in the world. I am tall, often quiet, kinky and BUSY. I am interested in intentional community and travel.

Helping organize KinkLINCS.org. Check it out!

We spent 3 years on the road. Two of those in our SVO RV. It was about 21 feet long, so tiny spaces for all of us.

Contemplating, exploring too many possibilities. Missing playing sax. Working out a couple of times a week, and still failing to do my yoga, even though I am a happier and more successful person when I do it. Hoping spring comes along soon so I can get out and drive a pedicab on the waterfront.

Running masturbation parties....seriously.... and it's great fun.

Coming up with fabulous ways to do things. Discovering the silly mistakes in your system. Figuring out the best ways to share information and organizing stuff (not my stuff). Bliss, sometimes. Making lasagna. I have been known to bake bread with 28 cups of flour regularly. I love to plant flowers and I garden as well.

I'm pretty good at remaining calm, thank goodness!

I'm a bit of a wall flower most of the time. The silver in my hair. I'm quite tall. Often I'm volunteering or managing something.

My eyes. I'm really good at looking normal.

A: A Course in Miracles and Oh, The Places You'll Go B:The Princess Bride C: SJ Tucker & The Wetspots & Charlie Daniels D: Mexican sushi, Ethiopian, almost anything someone else cooks. I really loved our house share when I only had to cook one nite a week, but got meals 6!!

sex, chocolate, massage, a passport, food/air/shelter, communication!

Getting things done, making life simpler, water and rainbows. I adore waterfalls and will do quite a lot to play in them. I wonder why what we say we wish is so often NOT what we go for. And if we get what we wish, we are so often not happy. Mostly I don't mean this personally.

If being in one place is really better than being a gypsy. The three years we spent on the road full-time got way old for me, but there are moments when I would almost go back.

I usually have a work shift.

I love waterfalls!

My family life is Complex. Hubby and i celebrate one night a week, Brian is here occasionally as well. And, in really good weeks, I manage to see my girlfriend, too.

There is a tiger in here, and what good juju if she decides to pounce.

You are kinky and fun. I'm especially looking for a guy taller than me for events and women who switch. YOU ARE A SEX OR KINK GEEK.

To sail, kayak, or have sushi downtown.

If you'd like to bring me some dark chocolate.

You are intrigued by being lit on fire. (Yes, I'm serious.)

(but, really, use my e-mail celia@thecspc.org ...please!)