No, "Hey, you're pretty." is not a good message. If you think I would be fun, you're right. Now give me a couple reasons to think you are fun. Bonus points if one of them is something I say I like on here.
I'm KINKY, that's whips and chains kinky. I love couples....any gender! And people who switch! It's spring, so everything is blooming. Some chances to just play with folks I find hot are awesome. This does not mean that I only play with kinky people. I do only play with confident people who can communicate clearly.
**no bareback** Don't bother if that's what you're looking for.
I've been in Seattle about seven years now with my Dear Husband and our 2 munchkins, 17 and 19.Hubby has a primary and they have a one year old. I have a new lover who is a wonderful, deep excitement and touches me in places I haven't been.
I volunteer with the Center for Sex Positive Culture, where I run events occasionally, including Myself! ~ the masturbation friendly sex party. Their site is thecspc.org
My coaching and teaching site ladywildfire.com and I also work in retail.
I'm looking for a "Yes, you can!" kind of partner who isn't afraid to tell everything straight-up and still manages to be an encouraging force in the world. I am tall, often quiet, kinky and BUSY. I am interested in intentional community, growing things, kimchi and travel.