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fireflynitesky

50 / F / straight / Single

London, Ontario, Canada

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I am funny, intelligent, and beautiful.

My Self-Summary

Hi,

Simply, I am ready to move on with finding a new man. No baggage, left that behind. I like the friends first approach and who knows what comes after. Always up for an adventure.

I believe a man is attractive if he is intelligent, funny, compassionate, is a hard worker and is relatively fit. If I've learned anything, it's that life is precious and I want to "carpe diem".

Let's have fun!

What I’m doing with my life

Good question. After 20 years in social services, I'm pursuing my interest cooking. I also have experience in healing arts. Family needs are high on my priority list right now, thus a less stressful job right now.

I’m really good at

I am really intuitive and compassionate and find many people drawn to me seeking support. I am really good at putting people at ease with my humour. I like to think I can play pool. I love to camp and could probably survive in the woods for weeks, not that I'd choose too. I am a good cook. The list could go on, find out for yourself.

The first things people usually notice about me

My dark blue eyes, my smile, humour, my crazyness (good) my legs, depends on if we are talking men or women.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

This could go on for days. I am an avid reader, watch endless movies and as for food, I'm working on being able to cook everything well myself.

The six things I could never do without

My family and friends.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What way that I could use my gifts to help others more. Unfortunately, the health of a couple of family members right now, hoping to find someone to go through the years with, enriching each others lives.

On a typical Friday night I am

Seriously right now watching a good movie with my daughter or out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have the same insecurties at this age as anyone else. Lets pretend we are 19 again, optimistically wise.

You should message me if

You actually understand my words and would like to start with messaging.