I'm an immigrant from California. I had heard so many wonderful things about Oregon, and Portland specifically, that I decided to forget about California. Forget about an overpriced housing market and so many other things that just bugged me day after day. In 2003 I moved north to Oregon.
I've lived in the suburbs and in the big city. In upscale neighborhoods and in sketchy artist lofts.
Life is big and wide and not very black and white. We truly can have many loves. Life goes on, different than before, more exciting but with a few additional complications. We humans grow stronger by managing life's complications. This is what I believe.
I'm really good at sitting across a table from you and talking together. Sharing laughter. Listening. Or letting you trick me into talking too much about myself. I'm working on being better at truly listening to you.
I have a career position of 8 years and I am renewing my artistic side with photography, some video, and hopefully more fiction writing. I am looking for short-term or long-term friendship and romance. I freely admit that a great sexual relationship is very important to me but its not the only thing on my mind. A better relationship gets built with someone who is sex-positive. Building new connections to see what may come from them is where I'm heading.