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54 F Albuquerque, NM

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Last Online
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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a PhD student who teaches at the undergraduate level. My time is spent researching and writing when I am not teaching. However, one must enjoy life! I am looking for a non smoker who is willing to build a friendship first.
My background is quite diverse ... see below. Currently, well in the past 15 years, I have been studying Native American Spirituality with both the Cherokee and the Seminole. I don't think I will ever stop wondering and learning ... I also photograph many of the gatherings on the Reservation as well as the beauty of the mountains.
What I’m doing with my life
Question is ... what am I not doing? I was one of the first women trained as a firefighter in the state of FL. My background is extremely diverse. I have an AS in Fire Science, a bachelors in business admin, a masters in healthcare admin, and my PhD is in Psych. Additionally, I am fluent in sign language and hold certifications as an arson K9 handler, I am an RMA, NCMA and certified through both AMT and NCCT. Basically, if something interests me I will go to school and learn all I possibly can about the matter.

At this point in my life I am concentrating on finishing my PhD and finding someone to spend the rest of my life with. Frankly, I think it is easier to finish my education!

My main home is in Western NC on 2.5 acres of mountain paradise. I have land holdings in numerous states and would love to travel to these various properties to see what they are all about. I have just relocated to New Mexico to direct the medical assisting program at one of the local universities.

Other than that I am just your average girl next door, low maintenance, and share my NC home with my youngest brother and adult son.
I’m really good at
SCHOOL! gardening, crocheting, photography, and hiking. I enjoy riding horses and on the back of motorcycles (if you are not a crazy driver)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most all music ... except RAP! I love horror shows. Food is a totally open area .... I love to try different types
The six things I could never do without
My Faith, my family, the beautiful mountains I live in, my gardens, music, and something new to learn
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finishing my education!
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually writing papers for my Phd .... possibly exploring my new surroundings
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I had a slight disagreement with an alligator in FL about 20 years ago .... as such I wear braces on my legs when I am hiking or doing anything really strenuous
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 53–62
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you are willing to build a friendship first, are a non smoker, and can deal with the fact that I am working on my PhD.