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fireman7968

46 M Castleton-on-Hudson, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a professional firefighter, father of 2, and married. While I love my wife, she has a zero sex drive and is not willing to change. I am not looking to change my current situation, and not looking to change yours either. I am an honest, down to earth, and hard working man. I am not looking for a full blown relationship, but more of a fwb situation. Yes, I am married. No, I am not cheating. My wife knows I'm on here. She suggested I try this to reduce the stress of our situation.

I am looking into exploring some fantasies/desires with another woman. This could be an ongoing situation if the chemistry is there. Not into the 'hit it and quit it' mentality. I would also like to explore the D/s lifestyle; however, I am NOT into the S/M side of BDSM. Although, some playful spanking and light bondage may be involved. Looking for a submissive or sub curious female for some fun times.

I believe in being completely open and honest with my partner(s). I'm not one of those douchey guys that lie to get in your pants. That's not my style. I'm safe, sane, and an all around "good guy". I want to learn your boundaries, what your fantasies are, what you dream about. Rare and hard to believe, I know. Give me a chance. You won't be disappointed.

Open and Honesty a MUST!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working mostly. Able to get lots of house stuff done because of my schedule. Have taken up beer crafting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking care of others
Making people feel comfortable and at ease
Staying cool headed in the face of chaos
Applying band-aids
Making beer

Some firefighter facts:
I'm a pro at mouth to mouth
I can sweep you off your feet - literally (we train for it)
You can lean on me physically and emotionally for support
Safety is a firefighters biggest priority
I'll run into a burning house for you !!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. I think they're hazel but everyone says they're blue. Piercing and unforgettable.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Wheel of Time, Song of Fire and Ice, WWII and Civil War history.
Movies: Star Trek/Wars, National Lampoon Christmas and Vegas Vacation, Its a Wonderful Life
Shows: Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Falling Skies, Broadway's Phantom of the Opera
Music: Broad selection; two favorite genres are metal and classical. Least favorite are country and rap (or as I refer to them....Crap)
Food: Not a picky eater, like all foods. Will never be vegan: I couldn't tell one plant from another to know if it's poisonous or not; but I know if it walks or crawls, I can cook it and eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
Sex
Intimacy
My job
Family
Money
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we park on a driveway and drive on a parkway.

When the gun control advocates are going to go after an assault weapon ban for the military.

If mankind will find another planet to overpopulate, or will society implode.

Why the alphabet is in the order it is. Is it because of the song?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or hanging with the little ones.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like a man in uniform and are interested. Not looking for one-timers. Must be std free and willing to prove. I will do the same. Willing to be discreet if you desire. I answer all messages, even if only to politely decline. If someone takes the time to write, I feel it's only respectful to reply back.