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firemonkey_08

46 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Cork, Ireland

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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I am Happy, Hungry, and Handy.

My Self-Summary

I live near the sea in beautiful West Cork, Ireland. I'm a sculptor, making carvings in stone, work often based on ancient art and mythology. Teaching music (flute)to children is a very rewarding job and takes up most of my working time and at the moment. UPDATE: After 6 years teaching and letting my creative side wane, I have decided to take a year off, travel, take part in some Buddhist meditation retreats and maybe some yoga retreats too. I was in Sri Lanka in August and Peru and Bolivia in December and January and hope to get to the Himalayas in the Autumn. I'm doing a Kundalini yoga teacher training course now and really enjoying it. Apart from what i'm learning, it's also a great help in developing a more committed daily yoga practice.

I have an interest in travel off the beaten track, camping, swimming, nature, my herb garden, oriental art, literature, psychology, mythology, Buddhism, ancient cultures and enjoy listening to a wide variety of music including world music, blues, rock and classical. I enjoy the sensual pleasures of life: good food and wine, nature and the sea and of course wonderful sex within a loving relationship -the truly intimate kind (as in tantric yoga) where sensuality and spirit meet and two merge in to one leaving egos behind! :)

What I’m doing with my life

Teaching children music, more than creating art at the moment. Enjoying the house and garden I have been creating/building after more than 10 years hard work. (Help needed in the garden department if you are interested). I'm keeping up a daily yoga and meditation practice and it's good to know I'm still pretty flexible and can muster a little self discipline! In an attempt to lead a more sustainable existence without a mortgage, I'm thinking of selling my house and building a smaller, more eco friendly place nearby. It's good fun doing drawings and dreaming about it.

I put my age down here as 45 as so many women seem to use that number as their upper limit for a partner. I'm a couple of years older although you wouldn't know it and come on, you know men only start growing up at 40!

At last I have got round to starting a new website for my art work: http://www.sculpture-ireland.com

I’m really good at

Anything with my hands, sitting still, making love, playing music, using my nose.

The first things people usually notice about me

The fact that I am awake :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Just bought several books on Tibetan Buddhism, including The Bliss of Inner Fire by Lama Yeshe and the biography of Padmasambhava and his student Yeshe Tsogyal, Passionate Enlightenment - Women in Tantric Buddhism by Miranda Shaw and Vajrayogini - Her Visualisations, Rituals and Forms by Elizabeth English. They should keep me out of mischief for a little while.

Books back on the shelves for now are Sepulchre, the next book by Late Moss. Introducing Tantra by Lama Yeshe and Illuminating Silence -The Practice of Chinese Zen by Master Sheng Yen. Dogen's Shobogenzo -the 4 volume translation. Labyrinth by Kate Moss, Memoirs of a Geisha, love Naruda's poetry, Rilke, Rumi, St John of The Cross, Jung, Joseph Campbell, Carl Schuster, Rumer Godden, Umberto Ecco, lots of other authors. The Art of Sexual Ecstacy by Margo Anand.

adventure, antiques, archaeology, art, artist, backpacking, Buddhism, camping, cello, china, classical music, concerts, cooking, creativity, culture, drawing, flute, France, French, gardening, goddess, India, intuition, Ireland, making love, meditation, mountains, museums, musician, mythology, nature, open minded, painter, painting, passionate, photography, piano, poetry, psychology, red hair, sculpture, sensual, swimming, tantra, travel, trees, violin, viola, West Cork, wine, world music, writer, writing, yoga, Zen, Zen Buddhism

Jean de Florette and Manon des Sources, Chocolat, Amelie, The Name of the Rose, Roger Rabbit, Blade Runner, Lord of the Rings, Crouching Tiger, The Last of the Mohicans, Doctor Zhivago, Chunhyang (Korean), L'été de mes 27 Baisers WONDERFUL movie by Georgian director Nana Djordje, 2 Brothers (about 2 tigers) Kingdom of Heaven, ........

Yo Yo Ma, Beuna Vista, William Bennet, Billie Holiday, Artie Shaw, Annie Lennox, Beatles, Fiona Apple, Incredible String Band, Natacha Atlas, John Martyn, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Tom Waits, John Foulds, Les Voix Bulgares, Muddy Waters, Salif and Sekou Keita, Lou Reed, Joni Mitchell, Afro Celt Sound System, Neil Young, John Lee Hooker, fairport Convention, Transglobal Underground, Nitin Sawhney, Rolling Stones, Cecilia Bartoli, J.J. Cale, Cara Dillon, Manu Chao, Marta Sebestyen, Toots Thielemans, Bjork, Baaba Maal, Talvin Singh, Norah Jones, Massive Attack, Moby, B.B. King, Led Zeppelin, Nick Cave, Jack Lukeman, Cat Stevens

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The six things I could never do without

Fresh air, water, food, sleep, love, friendship,

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Becoming more creative, becoming more conscious, not thinking, wondering if there is some lovely insightful woman out there to bump into someone and share things with.

On a typical Friday night I am

I don't tend to think too much about what day it is.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I worry sometimes that other people can see straight through me -literally!

You should message me if

I'd love to meet a creative, sensual, intelligent and open minded woman who understands what empathy means. Someone who combines earthiness & sensuality with a spiritual awareness & intimacy.

Do you have an interest in the arts, with creative inclinations, possibly an artist (even on an amateur level) or musician, dancer or writer, philosopher, health care worker, inspired lawyer or muse?

I would love to meet someone also interested in Buddhism, meditation or yoga as these can help provide a healthy foundation for a good relationship. I am looking for a long term partner but at the very least it will be good to make a new friend and who knows where friendship might lead.....