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28 Oslo, Norway Man


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Last Online
Dec 27, 2014
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Norwegian (Fluently), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Summary summary (TL;DR, if you will), because I write a lot. A whole lot. Probably more than I should. Here's what I consider to be the very most important things about myself:
* Married (open relationship)
* Polyamorous (life's too short to spend with only one person)
* Pansexual (I prefer femme expression, regardless of gender)
* Sex-positive, body-positive, intersectional feminist
* Socially Liberal (legalize all the things!)
* Atheist agnostic (because no other position makes sense to me)

If I've visited your profile, but not messaged you, it's not because I didn't like you, at least most likely not. Rather, I'm very introverted and I'm not particularly good at coming up with things to say. I'm especially discouraged by people whose reply status is "very selectively". I'm also often browsing profiles casually without the intention to spend time messaging. I'd love being messaged by you though, if you think we'd get along. I'm much better at replying to messages sent to me than I am at sending them out.

My orientation says "bisexual". However, that's a bit of an oversimplification. I don't believe in the gender binary, so I'm probably closer to pansexual. That being said, I don't find myself attracted equally much to all genders... but since I have found people with all kinds of genders attractive, I feel like pansexual really does describe me best.

I'm a feminist, body positive, sex positive individual. I think I'm somewhat less masculine than the average male. I'm strongly empathetic, and cannot stand suffering in others. I will cry if I see something emotionally charged, whether it's happy or sad.

I am married. It's an open relationship, and I'm open to being contacted for any reason, whether you are looking for a pen-pal, a new friend, a confidant, a casual sex partner, a friends with benefits arrangement, a partner for a tennis game, somebody to play Tekken with, a Dance Dance Revolution partner... yeah, whatever you can think of. If I don't like your proposal, I'll make sure to let you know, but don't be afraid to ask.

I'm a computer nerd. I'm a software developer by profession. Computers have fascinated me ever since I was a little kid, and I knew from the moment I got my own computer (this was at age 9) that I wanted to work with them when I grew up. Usually when I tell people this, they seem awe-struck and tell me I am lucky that I found out what I wanted to be at such a young age.

During my free time, I typically surf the Internet, play computer, console or board/card games, study a topic I'm interested in or want to learn more about or work on a hobby software project I have going.

I'm an extremely liberal person. I tolerate pretty much anything that doesn't harm anyone else than the person doing it. I abhor censorship, and I believe all non-private information should be available at all times for everybody.

I'm an agnostic apatheist. I don't think there is a god, but I'm open to being shown evidence to the contrary. In either case, it doesn't matter much to me. I'm a socialist at heart. I'm a secular humanist.
What I’m doing with my life
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I already mentioned this, but I'm a software developer by profession. I like to study things, especially in fields I master well, such as computers and languages. One of my goals in life is to learn to speak ten languages (including my native language) fluently before I die. I have two down, and I'm currently working on my third.

I would like to come up with some great idea that would gain me a huge amount of money so I could quit having to work for money. It's probably not going to happen, so until then, I'll just stay at my profession. You know you've got the right job when going to work is something you look forward to most of the time.

I'd like to travel a lot, meets lots of interesting people, and see the world. I'm not sure that'll ever happen though, since traveling the world is rather expensive.
I’m really good at
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Computers, for sure. Languages. Driving... at least my passengers have told me so. Being a listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably that I'm quite shy when I meet people initially. This is very context-specific, though. If there are lots of people I know around me, I'm quite a bit less shy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Concerning books, I haven't read too many, but my favorites among those I have read are the whole Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy series, and The Da Vinci Code.

I haven't seen many movies either. Or, rather, I've seen very few that really caught my attention so much that "Oh, gotta see that one again and again!" I can reluctantly admit that I have not seen any "Lord of the Rings" movies, and I have only seen the first three (You know, the original, old) Star Wars movies.

My taste in music is highly diverse, and what I choose to listen to, or the combination thereof, perchance, is quite original. My most favorite genres (in no particular order) are (symphonic) metal, rock and pop. I try listening to anything before either embracing it or rejecting it. I find myself liking some music from almost any genre. Even if music means a lot to me, I don't make it much of a topic with friends, unless their tastes match mine closely. If they don't like what I listen to, I just don't play it when they're around.

I love food, but due to my unorthodox (although well founded) convictions concerning the relationship between food and health, there are very few foods in today's society that I can eat. I mostly eat meat, dairy, nuts, fruits and combinations thereof. I completely avoid eating grains, legumes, foods high in sugar and starch and foods that contain "vegetable" oils.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, especially the close ones. My mom has already died on me. I don't know what I'm going to do when my dad dies...

Friends! I don't have very many, but I have good ones. I believe in quality over quantity! I'm quite picky about people.


Intellect present in others. Whether or not I have intellect is not really for me to judge, but based on feedback, I have a good idea about my own standing.

Technology. I love technology. If I had the money, I would own every gadget on the planet, big or small.

Food, and I don't mean for survival's sake!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why some people who call themselves bisexual/pansexual set that they're only looking for women or only looking for men. "Oh, I also like women/men, I just wouldn't want to be with one." Huh? What's the logic here?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting on my computer doing various things. I enjoy programming, gaming, participating in online fora, and other activities. On rare occasions I go to the TGIF bar at my workplace with coworkers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I watch cartoons, I listen to music made for kids, I still read comic books, I can easily play with kids, and my humor includes certain childish aspects.

I do want to make it clear that I'm not a child trapped in an adult, though. I just happen to have a lot of my inner child still left in me, and I am in fact very content with that. People who completely "grow up" are so incredibly boring. It's like they've lost their spark of life.
You should message me if
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You want to talk to someone who is intelligent, but not supercilious; friendly, but not clingy; compassionate about the people and things he cares for, but not obsessive.

You are intelligent. If you're well read and spoken, or people say you have great common sense, that would be you.

You don't mind someone with a very liberal mindset. As such, I fail to see what's wrong with homosexuality; gay marriage; obscure, yet safe sexual practices and fetishes; euthanasia, and so on. If you don't mind either, that's good! If you do, that's not too big a problem either. I accept others to have different opinions than I.

If you use the word gay as a pejorative, you can just get lost. I hate you people.

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