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firesrage

31 / M / straight / Single

Hamden, Connecticut

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am active, honest, and selfless.

My Self-Summary

I have a curious mind, active imagination, and I'm anything but humorless. I enjoy imaginative, quirky, and colorful things, and food with bright flavors. I also enjoy puzzles, mysteries, and anything that requires thought.

Hiking is one of my favorite ways to pass the time. I hike year round, in all types of weather (except tornadoes), and hope to find someone open to doing the same.

I'm just as at home on city streets at night, as I am trekking in the woods. I enjoy taking daytrips down to NYC -- there's so much to do, so little time!

Family (including close friends) is very important to me, and I spend a lot of time with them. Whether it's BBQ's, or just shooting the breeze, I always find time for my family.

I'm very open-minded, non-nationalistic, and enjoy experiencing new cultures and cuisines.

What I’m doing with my life

Maintaining equilibrium. Just trying to stay grounded and clear-minded in my approach to everyday life, and do everything to the best of my ability.

I work for a financial research software provider, and it can be a bit stifling at times. But I enjoy my job, the people I work with, and the fact that I have the opportunity to travel on occasion.

Planning to move back to Fairfield County as soon as I can sell my condo.

I’m really good at

Finding things.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm skinny.
My blue eyes.
Hopefully that I'm smiling.
Hopefully not that I've just tripped, faceplanted, and now have a red dot on my forehead that makes me look like a married hindu.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Authors: Vonnegut, Pynchon, Palahniuk, Bierce
Poets: Neruda, Service, cummings

Movies: Amelie, Eternal Sunshine..., Bladerunner, Fight Club, The Man With No Name trilogy, etc.

Music: Tom Waits, Nina Simone, Radiohead, Nick Drake, Cinematic Orchestra, Explosions in the Sky, Do Make Say Think, Kammerflimmer Kollektief, Yann Tiersen, Cat Power, Pink Floyd, etc.

Food: Fruits, veggies, poultry, pork, and fish. I'll try any food twice, and I've never met a fruit I didn't like, er... except starfruit; and I don't think I'd like durian, either, but I would absolutely try to try it.

The six things I could never do without

Love.
Laughter.
Someone to confide in.
Activity.
Curiosity.
Camera.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

things I can do to improve myself.
things I can do to help family, friends.
things I wish I had never done.
things I wish I could do again.
things I wish I had the time to do right now!

On a typical Friday night I am

Relaxing after a long week of work. Maybe a Guinness, or two, but never three.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm pretty good at backgammon, and Clue -- care to challenge me? Puzzles, too; not the jigsaw variety, more along the lines of crosswords, and genealogy.

You should message me if

You are open-minded, have a curiosity toward life, a hunger for knowledge and self-improvement, and a desire to love and be loved.

Or, if you have similar interests and just want to shoot the breeze, i'm game.

Apologies in advance if it takes me a little while to respond.