Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will first admit that I am terrible at these things...
Ok, so I am a trans guy in the early stages of transition. I do
wish that they had a trans or FTM designation in the gender
section, oh well.
I am constantly driven to create. I almost always have something in
my hands, either making or unmaking. I weld, knit, paint, sculpt...
I am still looking for the one that will really inspire me. I work
well with my hands, and working in new mediums is one of my great
joys in life.
I am pagan, but it does not consume my life, though I do feel
strongly about my beliefs.
I am deeply kinky, though I do enjoy vanilla sex with both men and
women, I need a person that I am involved with to at least be
comfortable with kink in general even if they are not themselves
interested in it.
I am poly, and in married to a wonderful guy, who I love dearly,
who is also poly. We both have had partners outside and inside of
I am sure that there are other things that I will think of later
and add then...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in customer service, which brings me in contact with a lot
of really interesting people. It also exposes me to a great deal of
I craft a great deal, and am always either working on something or
thinking about what I am going to do next. I am always happiest
when I am creating something.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new things. I always have something new that I am working
on, either a craft or a project, something that keeps me from
staring off into space uselessly...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually one of the first things people notice about me is my sense
of humor. I have a dry wit, as it were, and I tend to comment on
what is going on around me. That said I try not to be one of those
running commentary guys who everyone wants to strangle...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love most kinds of music, but I LOVE Nick Cave. I also adore most
of the Romantic operas, Puccini, Verdi, Wagner. I can take or leave
Mozart and Brahms...
Books, I tend to stay in the Science Fiction and Fantasy genre, as
I tend to find the authors in that field play with a broader view
of the world than straight fiction.
I love bad horror and sci-fi movies. Anything with plot hole that
you can drive a truck through is good by me. My favorite right now
is "Mega-Shark vs. Giant Octopus," 'cause anything with Debbie
Gibson and Lorenzo Lammas and a continuity fail in the first 30
secs of the film is good by me! I like good movies too, but that
goes without saying...
I love to cook. I love good food, and I have expensive taste, so
that usually leaves me learning to make it on my own. I have
learned a good deal about making Thai and other southeast Asian
food, but I also love to bake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, 'cause silence can be scary. And I always have something
running in my head, so being able to control the mental soundtrack
Books, stories are what make living here ok, and not a long
grinding decay of... wow, no issues there...
Chosen Family, I need the feeling that there are people out there
who know me in all (well, most) of my foibles.
Good food, there really is nothing like sitting down at a really
good restaurant with good friends and having a perfect meal.
Craft and Art, and while they are different, I love them both. If I
lost the ability to create tomorrow I don't know what I would
Friends, I need the people that I feel close to. I don't always
talk to them everyday, though I am getting better about that, but I
do need them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The Zombie Apocalypse... and whatever project I am working on. And
then some more zombies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends, watching bad movies and eating good
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It seems telling that I keep leaving this field blank.
You should message me if
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You want to know more, or if you love BAD movies, 'cause I can talk
about them forever.
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