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32 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:07am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am from San Francisco, I wear glasses or contacts, I am learning slowly to cook more, music used to be the thing I cared most about and it isn't anymore (I still like it, I am just not 23 anymore.) When I find a new thing I love, I end up proselytizing it. If you met in me in 2009, I might have tried to convince you that mint.com will change your life. In 1999, built to spill.
I've taken the Myers-Briggs test a bunch of times and the only letter that I am solidly is N, the others are a toss-up. I will intuit the hell out of something, but I guess that means I don't think, feel, perceive, judge, talk to people or not talk to people very well.
I like mornings, I don't like crowds. I ride my bike a lot. I apologize a lot, sometimes when its unnecessary. I follow arts, news, pop culture pretty closely and sports & science just enough to get by in conversation.
Dogs and children tend to like me. I used to be allergic to cats, but then I lived with one and got over it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a graphic designer. I work for a big company. Because I like to sometimes decide what I design, I have a website of patterns I make. I run a lot or try to, I am prone to shin splints. I read a lot. I draw/doodle a lot. I make lots of to-do lists.
I’m really good at
Remembering trivia, coming up with strategies to completely change my life when it turns out I am upset because I had too much coffee,
The first things people usually notice about me
I am sure nobody notices it, but when I draw myself making the my eyes exaggeratedly deep set (i.e. completely shaded around them) sells it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books- Currently reading The Brothers Karamazov (question, does the plot ever pick up steam? I like it but I'm 100 pages in and I feel like I will be reading it for all of 2013 if the story doesn't pick up. I'm close to abandoning ship) Richard Russo is my favorite author, other authors might be better, but his stories make me feel more than anyone else I've encountered.

movies- Ratatouille, After Hours, Barbarian Invasions, Anchorman, most Pixars, Miyazaki movies, Coen Brothers movies, PT Anderson's movies.

music- recent favorites are Frank Ocean, Wild Nothing, Flying Lotus and The Shout Out Louds. All time favorites are David Bowie, The Kinks, Neutral Milk Hotel and Tribe Called Quest.

tv- Mad Men, Parks & Recreation, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad and Louie are the shows I watch regularly.

podcasts- I love them. WTF with Marc Maron, Radiolab, Planet Money, This American Life and Never Not Funny are my favorites.

food- curry, dim sum, roast chicken, cantaloupe, bahn mi, sandwiches, yogurt
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the lives that I make up for strangers, social etiquette and various ways I have handled situations, political/moral topics that I have arguments about where I take both sides
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, in at home or headed to a weekend destination. Probably those three in that order of likelihood.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a lady has theories and insights about things and unafraid of showing them. Maybe you can tell good stories. Its not you're unhappy or anything (though the feeling isn't unfamiliar), but you aren't overly perky.