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38 • Berkeley, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Dec 24, 2013
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Not at all
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Doesn’t have kids
INTERESTED IN DATING MOSTLY (AND MAKING SOME FRIENDS; and partnership at some point) with someone who is into fitness (running and weight lifting are ideal, but not required) AND who also has communication, emotional and relational skills.
Progressive, expressive, ability and and desire to be emotionally vulnerable, generous of spirit, loyal, reliable,
nurturing, playful, able to be loving, optimistic more of the time than not and open- minded. Sense of humor, some adventurousness and some wit go a long way.
Bonus POINTS if you are interested in breath and tantra like myself, can massage very well like myself, and or are in business management or healing work.
I am the above and playful, creative, growth oriented, spiritual not religious, nurturing, loyal, have a deep heart and mind, am involved in fitness, nutrition, healing, teaching, qi gong, massage, reiki, raw food, green juicing.
. If you happen to like or be interested in running/moving and weightlifting, I run 3-4 miles 6 days a week and weightlift Thursday eve and Sunday afternoon.
When the time is right (not in mind ego state, but universe', tes, spirit), I also seek lifelong relationship.
Please be hardy emotionally , physically or spiritually.
Other musts are the ability to be playful, generous spirit, desire and ability to be emotional available, non mainstream sensibility (aka not unconsciously living out conventional scripts
of our society), a little bit of humility - allowing the capacity to learn and grow, the ability to develop trust (and be trusted) over time. Be involved in and committed to your own healing and growing. With those who are more than friends, being sexually healthy (emotionally, physically, and mentally).
Age is unimportant.
Chemistry and fitness of body (relatively at least, and desire and interest in fitness), mind and heart are sought.
Making a better me and a better world.
The idea that gender and sexual orientation are a bit arbitrary.
I was an activist for many progressive issues. Now I work to help people change themselves (myself:)
Sharing fitness activities, intimacy, daily sexual sharing, tantra, creative playfulness, exploration, growth, laughter, massage, healing energy, nutrition, creative exploration
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