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fitinsideandout

49 / F / Straight / Single

Raleigh, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 2:46am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Gemini
Education
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am back after about a 5 month break. Find it hard to believe that finding a good relationship at this point in life is so difficult. I realize that relationships take work but it should not be so hard. With me what you see is what you get....

I do not feel that you should search for love, but search for good friends and let love happen. When it is time for the "right one" to come into my life, it will happen naturally and I will know...just harder than I thought. I am NOT into one night stands, I have too much respect for myself, not what I am looking for at this point in my life and a person can get "Just sex" anywhere so it sure would not be on a dating site.

I am a down to earth, honest woman who looks and feels younger than her age. I have been teaching aerobics for 18years, am a trainer and also teach a kid's fit class. Along with the fitness part of my life, I work full time for an electrical company and still help out part time at my last job as a book keeper. I do have a very busy life, but I make time for the things that are important and take time to enjoy life. I enjoy dressing up for a night out on the town but I am a country girl at heart and am just as comfortable in my jeans and boots. I have a great group of friends that I love going out with and having some fun but would like to find a guy with some of the same values as me to share some of the good times with. I love the beach, being outdoors and spending time with my boys. I am a very social person but I also enjoy some quiet nights at home with the right person. My best friends would tell you that I am honest, nice, caring, fun and dependable. I try to appreciate the little things in life and do not take things for granted. Every minute of every day is a gift :)

You are young at heart, enjoy life and having fun, like the outdoors and the beach, take care of yourself, do not wear jean shorts....lol, have confidence but are not cocky, have a sensitive side but are a "manly" man, have a steady income, are a good person with a good soul. If you think this applies to you, then would like to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
Even though I work a lot of hours right now, I am still enjoying life :). Taking time to appreciate the small things, thankful to be healthy and have the energy that I do and laughing a lot. I can be a bit silly at times.....still a kid at heart.
I’m really good at
Making people feel at ease...
The first things people usually notice about me
You can decide for yourself if we should meet....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite food is all kinds of seafood....love all kinds of music and dancing.
The six things I could never do without
My kids, family, friends, sunshine, beach and diet Mt Dew :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
That is a good thing that I like frogs.....you definitely have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince
On a typical Friday night I am
I do not think that there is very much that is typical about me. My interest are many and vary. I could be curled up with a blanket reading a book after a long week of work, out with a group of friends for dinner and/or drinks, hanging out with my son and his friends which could easily mean outside with a fire in the pit and playing corn hole, over a friend's farm riding 4 wheelers at night, dressed up for a night on the town, etc.....ever what I am doing, I am smiling and enjoying myself :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am at a point in my life where I really would like to find a man to have a fun, loving, committed relationship with. With that being said, I did learn from being married, it is better to be alone than to be with the wrong person, so I will not settle. I am a honest, loving, "normal" woman so please if you are on here playing games, do not contact me. I realize that parts of my profile come across as harsh, but I actually have a heart of gold. Trying to avoid some of the "craziness" on here.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating