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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
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Trying to quit
My self-summary
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June 20th update…..I have been off this site and the dating scene for a couple of months. Without the use of a realtor, I sold my house which I have lived in for 27 years in 4 days and turned around and bought another house. The whole process was very time consuming so I did not have time to focus on other things. I am still working on things in the new house but am now settled in.

You have to be honest with yourself before you are able to be
honest with anybody else.

The best description of myself would be a sophisticated country girl. I am a country girl at heart but am a lady (which means honest, self-respect and dignity) who also enjoys the finer things in life. If you are a country boy, then you must enjoy the same and if you are city boy, then you need to also be down to earth and able to enjoy the simple things in life as well.

Going to start by saying that I have a very fulfilled, content life. Great boys, family and friends along with a job and a love for life which keeps me active. While it would be nice to find the "right" one for me to share some of the fun times with and add to my happiness, I do not need somebody. If you feel you need somebody versus wanting somebody, then we are not a match.

I am young at heart, positive most of the time, love being a Mom, the outdoors, the beach and am very active (have been teaching aerobics for over 21 years.) While I do enjoy some quiet nights at home, I also enjoy going out to a nice restaurant to eat (love sushi), outdoor concerts, sporting events, nice long walks outside, etc. I feel there needs to be a balance of each. Not a fan of cold weather and you will never hear me complain about the heat.

You will also be young at heart, have a love for life and can appreciate the small things, attentive but not clingy, manly but have a bit of the sensitive side, have a life outside of the relationship and not needy and know how to treat a "lady."

I am looking for a relationship not a hookup and I am not a cougar so do not waste my time or your time contacting me if you are under the age of 42. While I a very easy going and do not meet a stranger, I do not have any tolerance for dishonesty, so no games. There does have to of course be a physical attraction but for me, the real attraction comes from within. Somebody who is my best friend, I can laugh and have fun with no matter what we are doing and somebody who likes to cuddle.

"Don't fall in love with the most beautiful woman in the world but the one that makes the world more beautiful." True beauty and sexiness comes from the inside and reflects to the outside.
What I’m doing with my life
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Even though I work a lot of hours right now, I am still enjoying life :). Taking time to appreciate the small things, thankful to be healthy and have the energy that I do and laughing a lot. I can be a bit silly at times.....still a kid at heart.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel at ease...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You can decide for yourself if we should meet....guess I get the most compliments on my eyes (green), hair and being toned.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite food is all kinds of all kinds of music and dancing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, family, friends, sunshine, beach and diet Mt Dew :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Have been told that I am "too picky" when it comes to men. I was raised right, have self-respect, morals, know how to treat others, honesty and Christian values and if expecting the same is "too picky" then I am perfectly OK with that :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I do not have a typical Friday night.....could be doing something with my boys, out with my friends, on a dinner date or at home curled up in my chair with a blanket. On this Friday night, 4/04/14, I was at the Mudcats game with 2 of my boys, one of their gf's and my middle son's best friend having a blast. Thursday nights are friends and family night. Lately have been going to BWW for wings and beer and that will switch soon for outdoor music. Normally at least 10 of us and if I am seeing somebody, they are always invited and welcome. My boys are 18, 22 an 25 and am very blessed that they still enjoy and want to spend time with me. Life is short so I try to enjoy and get the most out of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That if you have one of those self bathroom shot pictures with the shirt off, there is a 99.8 % chance you will not get a response from me... I am adding to this 02/01/15...If I am in a room of 50 people, and I cannot even recognize you from your pictures, in my opinion, that is deception. Deception is no way to start a friendship or any kind of relationship. My pictures are me and you will definitely know me when you see me. In actuality, I am not photogenic and am told that I look better in person so what you see is what you get. Yes, I do actually teach aerobics and workout daily. This does not mean that I am looking for a fitness king but it is nice to have somebody who tries to take care of themselves physically. As I have put in my profile, a true connection for me comes from the inside but it must start with honesty
You should message me if
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If my profile interest you and you feel we would make a good match, if you are looking for a good friendship to see if can develop into something more and if you are "normal." Seems to be a lot of crazy guys on these sites but then again, if you are crazy, guess you do not know it! Also need to add that my boys are 6'5, 6'2 and 6'1 and built like football players. I do not have an issue with shorter men ( I am only 5'4 1/2) but if you are shorter, then you must not be intimated by tall men.