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32 Ridgewood, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:16am
Asian, White
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've become a homebody in recent years. I find it hard to meet new people because I don't like starting conversations with strangers. This is partly because my work has me striking up small talk with sometimes hundreds of people per day. It can be very tiring.

Having plans is awesome - making plans is something that gives me trouble. I am awesome at keeping plans once they are made. I get where-should-we-go anxiety.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just moved from the Upper East Side to Ridgewood. I've never had so much space all to myself! I need to buy more furniture.

My cubicle is tucked above a Times Square tourist attraction and it overflows with files, an over assortment of office supplies and trinkets. Oh, and I run that tourist attraction. On any given day, I both love and hate my job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles. Multi-tasking. Consuming coffee. Folding fitted bed sheets. Making dessert. Mostly keeping my composure in the face of bad customer service.

Always keeping my composure when confronted by an angry customer.

Figuring it out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My commute just doubled in length. With an hour and a half of subway time everyday, I get to read! I lean towards non-fiction when choosing for myself, but the last two fiction works that were recommended to me recently were very enjoyable: Paul Auster's Moon Palace and Tom Robbins' Jitterbug Perfume.
Since those, I've read:
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes, The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature, Then We Came to the End, Sex With Kings and Attachments. Currently reading Liberty's Torch - pretty interesting and detailed accounts of how the Statue of Liberty came to be.

My musical tastes are varied and ever expanding.

I prefer to eat home cooked meals rather than going out or ordering in. I don't like oysters or liver, but I'll eat just about anything else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dramamine and/or my sea-bands, corrective lenses (glasses or contacts), caffeine, a hairbrush, hot glue gun, indoor plumbing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is this floor okay to walk barefoot on?
Subway etiquette.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm working a lot these days, so probably working. Or thinking about work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes fall out of bed.

I've also never driven a car. Non-Drivers ID holder.

I cry at movies and television shows and sometimes commercials...we're talking single dramatic tear down the cheek crying, not snotty sobbing crying. mostly.

I don't have a lot of secrets.