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fivefeettall

31 Ridgewood, NY Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:39am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've become a homebody in recent years. I find it hard to meet new people because I don't like starting conversations with strangers. This is partly because my work has me striking up small talk with sometimes hundreds of people per day. It can be very tiring.

Having plans is awesome - making plans is something that gives me trouble. I am awesome at keeping plans once they are made. I get where-should-we-go anxiety.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just moved from the Upper East Side to Ridgewood. I've never had so much space all to myself! I need to buy more furniture.

My cubicle is tucked above a Times Square tourist attraction and it overflows with files, an over assortment of office supplies and trinkets. Oh, and I run that tourist attraction. On any given day, I both love and hate my job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Puzzles. Multi-tasking. Consuming coffee. Folding fitted bed sheets. Making dessert. Mostly keeping my composure in the face of bad customer service.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My commute just doubled in length. With an hour and a half of subway time everyday, I get read! I lean towards non-fiction when choosing for myself, but the last two fiction works that were recommended to me recently were very enjoyable: Paul Auster's Moon Palace and Tom Robbins' Jitterbug Perfume. I'm currently reading a book about working in a crematory.

My musical tastes are varied and ever expanding. This past summer I got to see a bunch of great bands in concert: Counting Crows with Toad the Wet Sprocket, Arcade Fire, The National, Broken Bells with Cage the Elephant.

I prefer to eat home cooked meals rather than going out or ordering in. I don't like oysters or liver, but I'll eat just about anything else.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dramamine and/or my sea-bands, corrective lenses (glasses or contacts), caffeine, a hairbrush, hot glue gun, indoor plumbing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recipes.
Is this floor okay to walk barefoot on?
Subway etiquette.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm working a lot these days, so probably working. Or thinking about work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes fall out of bed.

I've also never driven a car. Non-Drivers ID holder.

I cry at movies and television shows and sometimes commercials...we're talking single dramatic tear down the cheek crying, not snotty sobbing crying. mostly.

I don't have a lot of secrets.