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54 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:46am
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born and raised in New Orleans (Geaux Saints!) residing in NYC. I appreciate many cultures and am lucky to have good friends around the world to visit. I’m an artist with an interest in social justice. Photography is my medium.

I'm comfortable with people in the
medical/science professions as my family are all doctors of some sort. familiar.

My friends are interesting, accomplished, smart, funny, sometimes sarcastic, always sweet...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking photos, editing photos, reading, watching movies, TV and traveling
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My friends say I'm a great cook, but I would say just good. Four Sicilian Grandparents helped in that department with New Orleans influence. Creole Italian -- perfectto, chere!

I pay attention to detail and enjoy good design.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I like to laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS: anything by Raymond Carver, Jeanette Winterson, Penelope Lively. Also, memoirs of artists and trying to get into certain histories.

MOVIES: 21 Grams(dark), The Fighter (acting at its finest) The Thin Red Line, A Woman Under the Influence (sublime) The Lives of Others (the acting, screenplay and sets are amazing-2 thumbs up for sure!) Mr. Turner (if you like JMW Turner paintings/even if you don't)

TV: News shows, LOVE Melissa Harris-Perry, Real Time with Bill Maher, Sherlock (new BBC version) I like to watch reruns. I read somewhere that it is a stress reliever.

MUSIC: Baroque, early Renaissance, Chamber, Professor Longhair, jazz, African, Bob Dylan, Debussy, Maria Callas to name a few. Anything that can transform my mood and/or make me wanna dance.

FOOD: Most
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sheet film (analog/old school)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A book I just read, a movie I just saw, politics. I think about what my next project will be and when I will finish the ones I have started. I think, when's the next time I can sneak off to New Orleans and hang out with my family and friends and finish that photo project... Or when I will visit friends in some of my other favorite cities to travel to... London (I'm coming Andreas!) Barcelona, Mexico City, Rome, Tokyo

Sometimes I think too much.

I'm a worrier but also carefree!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am more than likely entertaining or being entertained.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's see.. I can hang with the richest and the poorest... And do.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are warm and authentic.

If your interest in art is sincere and you wanna share -- the basics -- food, music, travel

Most of all have integrity.

I would love to feel we are from the same tribe... Or a tribe I'd like to join, if they would have me.

If your daughter or son told you they were gay and your response was --congratulations honey, I hope you have already found someone to love!
or congratulations would be enough.

If you resemble a middle aged version of #YonGonzales
I beg you to please write me.