I was about time for a new self-summary...."Have I changed"? "Am I trying to be someone I'm not"? Some of you may wonder; it's up to you to find out.

Other then that I am still: 1) smart enough to know I don't know very much 2) everything but average; not in taste, music, film, politics or approach to life 3) not too shabby ;P 4) good at talking...."praten,praten,praten" as my significant other put it once 5) a specialist: can learn almost anything if focussed 6) someone who really enjoys helping others 7) helping myself...

"My ego is writing checks that my body can´t cash"" ^_^ asking people if they know where the previous quote (ego/cash) comes from... Absorbing information. Trying to improve. Travelling

Everything except playing fieldhockey and dying

More seriously (I have to impress that girl:-): Finding my way in unknown territory, listening and learning from languages I really don´t understand. Actually, I´m not excelling in anything, I´m doing quite well overall. When I read the above I sound like an arrogant bastard....I´m, not!

Me asking them, what they noticed first about me. The second thing noticed is usually more important...my smile

A) learning how to read lol, drama van het begaafde kind-Alice Miller, Adriaan&Olivier-Leonard Huizinga, Thorgal, Storm, XIII.

B) Revolver, Pulp fiction, Dogma, reservoir dogs, goodfellas, Snatch, Hurlyburly, State of Grace, American Beauty, The usual suspects, Hot Shots I&II, Spaceballs, Once were warriors, From Dusk til dawn, Planet of the Apes, Killing Zoe, Clerks, Good Will Hunting, Gran Torino

C) Opeth, The Police, Aghora, Death, Gordian Knot, Sepeltura, Pain of Salvation, Genesis, Ozric Tentacles, Slayer, Dream Theater, Massive, Chet Baker, Clannad, Portishead, Cynic, Bozzio Levins & Stevins, POS, Grip Inc, Amy Winehouse, Norah Jones, Curtis Mayfield

D) Indonesian, Japanese (SUSHI!!), Italian, meat, veggies, potatos, tomatoes, pussy...after having the real deal for the first time I will add Chinese food as well (not the average take-away shit in Holland)

E) British Comedy: Blackadder Rules!, Bottom, Fawlty Towers, The Young Ones, A bit of Fry and Laury, Have I got news for You, Never mind the Buzzcocks, "QI" (Stephen Fry hosts)

Hope you guessed what the added E-section is all about....

Music, humor, love&intimacy, travelling, food, film, sarcasm,

What my subconscious is thinking. The places on this earth where I am not, right now. Travelling. On a cloudy depressing day, the horrific facts of life trouble me: I really would like to kwow what it is that gets in to peoples minds when they hurt/torture/kill people. I don't mean the "criminally insane", but the people who seem to be "normal". I you have seen Polanski's Pianist, you will know what I mean. Don't get me wrong, I don´t have morbid interests, I´m just deeply puzzled by human behaviour.

Trying to figure out what typical friday nights are about.

I actually have a life outside okcupid. Play drums on my or another body in the shower...don´t worry, the other body is alive, female and conscents to this.

Want to know if I am being serious or not. Want to know if I like Harry Potter. Want to have a laugh and if you´re lucky, a really loyal friend.